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Originally Posted by D.projectile
love does hurt when you've been betrayed, it doesn't matter if you're a man or woman, it hurts. that is real.
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Originally Posted by D.projectile
love does hurt when you've been betrayed, it doesn't matter if you're a man or woman, it hurts. that is real.
there was absence of love though right? someone's selfishness hurt youQuote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
Male
Female
Opposite sexes
How the 1 behaves in sexual matters is contrary, by definition, to how the other behaves.
To imply, or to think that the 2 should behave in a like manner in sexual matters is unnatural and asinine.
A real live dude is not gonna cheat on a girlfriend
If the man knows he wants multiple women, he should have never made any 1 woman his exclusive girlfriend. He either made that commitment to get the pussy, or to hold on to the pussy. A real dude would have been straight up from the beginning: "I want you, as well as others." And if the woman wasn't down, he would move on to the next woman. Being so pressed over 1 female that you would "commit" even though you want to sleep around is really some sucker shit. His game ain't up to par.
Marriage is a whole other matter.
Marriage is the basis and foundation of family, and family is the basis and foundation of society and civilization in general. If one knowingly, willingly, and blatantly violates the sanctity of marriage, they should suffer severe chastisement
TRUE STORYQuote:
Originally Posted by Senator C. Palantine
It does take two and relationships are definatly good when they're goin well but as you said you have a choice and he chose to cheat so the relationship couldn't have been that important to him no matter how many times he told you he loved you or how serious it felt to youQuote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
Surely the love for your partner is completley different to the love you might have for parents, animals etc.. (I'd hope so anyway!)Quote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
I honestly feel for ya but as stated earlier I don't think your gonna find the answers your looking for on here or from anyone other than your ex
several people have givin serveral answers to your main question. i've come to the conclusion that u either need to ask this guy why he cheated or just get over it already.
we all cheat for different reasons and only he has the right answer for u
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Originally Posted by SURLY DUFF
real talk june thats real talk
i get it.Quote:
Originally Posted by llBARlllCODEll
men cheat, women cheat. just because they want a fuck. that must sound great in the divorce courts. why do people get married or have relationships if they're gonna fuck whoever they want anyways?
people change like the weather
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Originally Posted by june181972
but they do behave in a like manner when it comes to sexual matters. men cheat and women cheat. both sexes can cheat.
Cos they probably start out that marrige or relationship thinkin that they're with 'the one' then when it isn't working out the way they had it planned and they either dont try to sort it out or they're scared to end it, for whatever reason.. so they end up lookin elsewhere for whatever the reason might be and inevitably someone ends up gettin hurt
yep we both have alot of work to do
if people who think they've found the one and then change their minds when they find out that person is not really the person you thought they were then you either work things out or end it. why drag it out until you hate each others guts and spend all your time hating on each other?Quote:
Originally Posted by hashashin
if they're not the one for you then why live a lie?
Well exactly, thats what I'm saying! I agree with you but noone other than your ex can give you the answers because we don't know the specific details of your relationshipQuote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
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Originally Posted by KaramelSundae
i don't watch jersey shore and i certainly do not aspire to be like them.
you'd be ok with your husband cheating on you? if he did cheat on you should your friends remind you not to be a sammi sweetheart?
don't be a sammi sweetheart cos all the men wanna fuck bad bitches?
cos men treat these bad bitches so well?
cos the more men that want to fuck you the better?
why do you care if you're in love?
date a bad bitch then it's your choice.
if you cheat on these bad bitches then it's your choice to complicate your life.
how many relationships have you been in OD trixx?
does it matter?
if i've been in many relationships then i obviously didn't try hard enough to make any of them work.
do you honestly not know any nice women in today's society?
also to the person who said "you can tell someone from get go that you want to fuck multiple partners" are u kidding me? let me explain something to you about emmotions,impulse and the mechanism of a conscience, these things are not science or mathematics,they arent like probabilities where you figure,if you do one thing,the outcome might be another, Some of you are missing one fact ive been trying to drive in this thread, some people do not start off with the intent to cheat or stray, neither do they have those traits about their personalities, however,circumstances change, people change, especially in an ever evolving world where the possibilities are endless when it comes to the matters of the heart, lets be clear that this aint the 60s anymore, the freedom to explore matters of the heart in this era are in abundance and have been made more accessible, the fact is..Now people can change a situation they are not happy with easily and easier than back then when some of the acts that happen today were tabooed.
Now people are wired to know they can have options and they freely explore them without a fear of rebutal or judgement from the general public but the notion that one can be blunt about alterior motives to someone they desire and also want to build something with is very unrealistic,rarely does that happen and turn out on a positive note, sometimes people stray and keep it on the low because of the nature of the charecter of the person they are with, situations are relative,its dismal to judge anyone who commits the act without really knowing what their true intent was and the cause to the effect, its easy to point fingers at what looks like the blatant problem, but what you all seem to forget is problems are spawned from a source..maybe thats what people need to be probing more
i'd sooner take relationship advice from people who are or have been in few long term relationships before i take relationship advice from a serial cheater that has been in many, many relationships.
trixx, have you slept at all in the last few days?
It does matter greatly how many relationships you have been in..its a VEry important way to determine how to handle future unions, people have different personalities and everyone you get with will have a different flaw to them,thats how you grow as a person and learn about relationships as a whole, someone who has had just one person in their life cant really guage or understand the ins and outs of a relationship as opposed to someone who has been in many, its like sports, you train,you get better, you know what tricks there are to the game,what you can do to prevent the penalties, what you can do to perfect the art of winning at the game,altho on the subject of love,there is no definitve outcome, its like a casino..you go in there with tons of money, you might come out empty handed or richer, depending on which game you played and how well you played it, experience is the greatest teacher in life, remember thatQuote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
and once again..please read my wording well, and understand that when i speak on issues,i DO NOT, generalize, i know alot of nice women out there but im also not dumb enough to think they do not have skeletons in their closets, people can wear masks and wear them so well you wont be able to tell which is their face or the mask, its like couples you see in public kissing and holding each other all smiles and shit and you think its all peachy there but at home behind closed doors,its chaos..in life..one of the most important things you need to learn is Not to be naive and take things at face value..fatal mistake
are you implying that i am a serial cheater? lmaoQuote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
see, every trap ive set for you in this discussion,you have fallen for...i see what the issue might be on your end..but are you seeing it?? granted i dont know you in real life or whatever but if the state of mind you are displaying here is really yours and really defines who you are as a person then clearly, you have issues with being judgemental, and i can tell you right now..not too many men want to deal with that ...and i mean that in the nicest way ever
the blatant reason seems to be because men wanna fuck other pussy and women want other dicks?Quote:
Originally Posted by RADIOACTIVE MAN
if you have special reasons not mentioned in this thread then please do tell.
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Originally Posted by RADIOACTIVE MAN
where did i imply that you're a serial cheater? i was talking about serial cheaters in general. both men and women.
This isn't healthy to not leave the thread for a couple days straight. Maybe try to get some rest, take a walk, a shower, or something.
i've had a bath a few hours ago.
man o man. Shifter is hittin the nail on the head and drivin it home like the whip Eli won for getting SB MVP.
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-XCFamCJRQv...65364654_n.jpg
http://www.sendspace.com/file/0vi51g
this thread is
i agree with check two...honestly i think youre still hurting, the wounds are fresh and as much as we have had this debate and are on the opposite sides of it, i do hope you find the closure you need and balance in your life to erase the pain. Just know, what i have told you in this thread is the most honest answer you gonna get from any man in regards with the situation..ive been on both sides of the fences and have no agenda or reason to lie to you. what you need to do when you get time..is read every point expressed here and take something from them about the state of mind of most men in general and know..the enemy most of you women fight..is one alot of yall created when you felt you were in a position of power over men. ill repeat..for a dude to cheat alot..something triggered it, ive given you a few examples, think about it
he goes hard.
WE GO HARD!! ANYBODY CAN SIGN UP!!
IT'S EITHER IN U or U WANT IT IN U
lmao
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Originally Posted by RADIOACTIVE MAN
i never saw him as an enemy. i loved him. and i don't see other men as the enemy either cos they've done nothing to me.
what i gathered from this thread is that men and women will want to satisfy their sexual needs at whatever cost.
whatever triggers it is down to the individual but the outcome still ends with people getting hurt.
still doesn't give me any answers on finding a long loving relationship. i guess this place really was not the place to find answers.
people choose to be part of the problem or part of the solution. negative energy attracts negative energy. have a nice day.
Well, at least you're clean...
well i'm strong enough not to let a man that lies and cheats change my values or make me bitter about all men.
i just hope there are decent men out there who will treat me with the same respect i show them.
i didnt mean you personally saw him as an enemy but what im saying is, there might be a history, a genesis to why he did what he did to you, who knows, you might have been one of the good ones but maybe..just maybe..a shitload of the jezebels out there broke his will in the past and he decided to do what will keep him away from a probably reoccuring situation. my point is, even villains have a past, sometimes they pasts start off in paradise then they are introduced to hell and they realize how surreal life can be.
humanity is weak in a sense, especially when it comes to emmotions and controlling them,thats why there are wars,thats why greed exists,thats why alot is going to shit but every experience too is worth going through,even the bad ones, because through them,you know exactly whats good for you, you know exactly what you deserve. but you must not only look at the faults of the other party,but within too, to improve on what isnt a definite thing,the human charecter. Right now,im happy with my girl and havent even thought of cheating on her once,hell i even reject advances now..why? because she hasnt given me any reason to want any other options, the void i wanted filled is being filled at the moment by her, there is absolutely no reason for me to break her heart, but before that, i went through the phase, i fucked many women before i met her..through all those experiences..i learnt more and more,what i wanted till i found it. thats part of the lesson of life. to buy a car..test drive it first to see if it meets all your needs, a family man wouldnt want to invest in a convertable..now would he?
She got dumped on by a nigga with a Plan A...
Let's leave shit alone.