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i thought u wanted to know why men cheat? or just if its natural for men to cheat?Quote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
to answer your new question
dont be clingy. suck his dick as much as possible. learn how to cook and clean and make your own money. dont talk about marriage or children. use birth control UNTIL HE IS READY to be Al Bundy. dont call him every single minute when he isnt home or in your company
even tho this could still back fire, this is my best advice
the void is filled? what happens when something goes wrong? do you put in the effort to work things out or move on?Quote:
Originally Posted by RADIOACTIVE MAN
if the void has been filled in the past it can be filled again. unless someone does something unacceptable to the other.
You cant let one bad break up stop you from trusting all men. I can't answer for certain why u got cheated on but I can tell u that your never gonna find that long lasting, loving relationship that your looking for if your never gonna trust anyone again....
i have a rule. when someone fucks me over, they gost to get the fuck stepping,if something goes wrong,especially if it involves cheating,she is out and she knows it,because i made it clear to her,i believe thats why she does everything to be the best woman she can be because she knows with me,she doesnt have to worry about anything, we help each other through the worst of times and she knows one thing about me,im a man of my word,if i promised her loyalty like i did, then thats what she is going to get so screwing that up knowing what she knows would make her nothing but trash that needs to be thrown out
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Originally Posted by hashashin
i can learn to trust again, but it's gonna be hard for me.
i will give men the benefit of the doubt but i will also have to take what they say with a pinch of salt. trust has got to be earned and not given.
harsh is right to an extent..id say trust but be vigilant..i only give women 50% of myself,the other 50 is for damage control, the secret is to go into these things realistically, knowing that the worst could happen but at the saME time,do not deprive yourself from the perks that come with being in a relationship. let me put it like this,if your expectations are unreal, the realistic horror of the situation becomes to unbearable
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Originally Posted by RADIOACTIVE MAN
i didn't really have any expectations when i entered a relationship with him. i just let things go with the flow. it was flowing nicely for the best part of it.
next time..make them work for emmotions. the guy who is willing to go the whole mile to have you in his life..just might be better than guys like me
just one thing.
am i a feminist? i haven't read much on feminism.
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Originally Posted by RADIOACTIVE MAN
that's sweet. ^O^
ill be honest, at first when i started having this debate with you, i thought you were one..most feminists start topics about men to man bash and in a sense,compete with mens abilities and state of mind,however..after knowing the true reason for this thread, im more than sure,you arent one but more of someone looking for closure for a hard experience...so No you aren't one
i'm pretty sure feminists become feminists because of certain men they've encountered. or maybe they just have a problem with the way society view women. some of the points they have are valid. but i don't know much about it so i won't comment too much about it.
This may sound random but what do u people think of James Gordon cheating in "batman: year one" and how he handled the situation
some feminists are the results of trend following. some might watch celebrity feminists and shape their lives around the actions of their idols not really knowing the real impact of the life they have chosen
@rakimkoolg sadly i havent had the chance to sit down and watch that one yet
of course, women hating on men won't work but neither does men hating on women. we do live in a society that view men more favourably. it's been the same throughout history no matter what country people live in or are from.
there are women, well, young girls in certain countries who have no choice but to leave school, get forced into marriage and become mothers once these girls start their period. girls as young as 12.
you can see why finding out something like that would anger a lot of females in the western world.
I've only read the comic but apparently the movie is basicly just the exact same the dialogue and apparently even comic pictures is all the movie isQuote:
Originally Posted by RADIOACTIVE MAN
i might have to see that
either way.i gott run people..its been good
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that would be true of any kind of idol worshipping whether it's feminists/rappers/actors/athletes/etc/etc.
i just wanted to say to the men in here that if you happen to do something or say something embarrassing in the presence of your women and she happens to laugh then don't take it to heart. an intelligent person will know that embarrassing things will happen to everyone and not hold not look down at you for it. they might still find it amusing weeks, months, years later. but look at it this way, you've given her a happy memory of you and every time she remembers it you will cause her to laugh. you don't have to be there with her, there's no effort on your part since it happened, the emotions she feels is always 100% positive, you will be the cause of her happiness, and this happiness could happen again and again. you end up talking about it and reliving it again and again. embarrassing stuff like when you've done a really smelly fart.
ok, when i've done a really smelly fart.
its very natural for women to cheat.