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So you made me YouTube 'feet wiggling'.
http://cdn.shopify.com/s/files/1/017...rande.jpg?2274
Maaayne...
We can safely say the world remains an interesting place.
Word. Sex workers are Just regular people. I do agree that the level of intimacy when you find someone who digs you for you and it becomes a relationship is not comparable to seeing a escort but you can still have a level if intimacy and connection if you see the same one, I see the same girl every time Tbh I'm pretty jealous of sex workers, I know there's a risk of having abusive clients but fuck they make some good money for less hours and in control of their own job if they're private. Dudes take them on holidays and but expensive gifts and shit, all because they were blessed with good looks lol it's crazy.Quote:
Originally Posted by 5th state
Relationships or escorts, it's all paid anyway and better sex than with Randoms from pubs lol
You're looking at this from the wrong angle. Its not about 'money', its about nature. They want a man to look after them because thats the deal we've got with nature. Several thousand years ago we were hunter gatherer and the woman stayed at home and raised kids.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Hound
Whats really changed since then? Our nature hasn't evolved in the last 15,000 years because species take a long fucking time to evolve. Whats changed is our self imposed rules for living, our technology, our customs etc.
Money happens to be the barometer we have now instead of a lot of dead animals and a nice house made of sticks. Women INSTINCTIVELY need a man who can take care of her and her potential offspring. How can you get mad at nature?
What's changed in 15,000 years? Well for starters we aren't hunter gatherers anymore and women don't need looking after and they know it. They know they don't a need a man because society already has shit ready for you.
Women today are "career focused" "don't need to have children" "independent" it's been a large push for over a generation to change their mentality. Nature evolves with out environment. How you think we have a hunter gatherer mentality when people are getting obese because of the high production of food lol
The REAL instinct that will never change is to procreate. Men desire sex. When once a woman was literally a birth machine no longer are they. Women don't need men anymore like they used to but men still need to get their dick wet. Women know their tits and pussy gives them a short cut to a luxury life style.
Women live in a fantasy world and think that's how it is these days, because they watched "Sex in the city". In the end reality sets in (My biological clock it ticking, I want children, I want a husband, I want someone to take care of me).Quote:
Originally Posted by The Hound
Despite how much they try and convince you otherwise, women know without those things, they will be considered losers.
No doubt a lot of it is bullshit, but it goes back further than SATC. From observations reality does set in but this new breed of independent broad is prepared to fight against its own emotional wellbeing to prove a point - that they don't need looking after.
Where a man would give in to craving a woman does not. Whether either is a good or a bad thing is subjective. Women are extremely stubborn creatures, men just do whatever feels good.
Of course this is a pretty generalised observation of Western women, this shit is completely different in regions like Asia.
your generalisation makes me laugh, cant you say by the same token that most men want the same? children, a wife or partner, someone to take care of them?Quote:
Originally Posted by zooruka
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Originally Posted by Frank Drebin
Yes.... but I think it's more in a women's nature to be maternal and have a family.
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Originally Posted by The Hound
ahahah...... no doubt.
Where are all these career focussed independent women? Lol even the ones that are will eventually settle down and squeeze out some brats and when they do they don't want a bum guy that can't support a family. How many times do you see a couple where the man earns less? So they still want a man to be better even with their career.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Hound
And i'm not talking about the mentality of hunter gatherers, god knows what that is. I'm talking about the instinct to provide for a woman, just like she has the instinct to make sure you aren't a loser.
Very little has evolved in 15, 000 years. Everything you're talking about is learnt behaviour. And what are you talking about when you say women don't need men?! They might say that if they're feminists but of course they need a man, I have a few female friends and they're miserable to be single and complaining about it.
How many couples do you know that openly discuss their financial situation? smh. We had a prime minister back in 2007 was living the life off of his wife's fortune lol the so called most powerful man in the country was second rate to his woman
The instinct to provide for a woman doesn't exist. We are not programmed as a species to be married and to have a family, we're programmed to bang and have babies. That's why people are out there cheating on each other, we get bored of shit. We get bored of fucking the same woman who eventually doesn't give it up. The escort I see she sees more married men who's wife doesn't give up the power u anymore than single people like me who feel like an expensive wank. People get married and families because the idea of a tribe/community has diminished over time, we don't teach and nurture children as a collection anymore we do it individually within our own little tribe called family.
Very little genetically has evolved in 15,000 but you're fucking kidding yourself if you don't believe the mentality of the human being hasn't evolved beyond that of a hunter gatherer. Of course women don't need men. Men don't need women either. The only way we "need" each other is to have babies, only now in 2014 to get to that point there are prerequisites and games and stipulations to follow. These independent bitches are trying to break the norm, and to be honest men should follow. We don't need to be bringing children in to this world and getting married and shit.
These independent career bitches are everywhere, you seriously can't get away from them. So a couple of low budget lowies feel miserable, boo hoo.
The mentality has evolved? Maybe evolved is the wrong word. It hasn't evolved, its just changed with our customs and society like I said to begin with, thats not the same thing as evolution. And you are fucking kidding yourself if you think human beings only have the one primal instinct.
Women don't need men? Men don't need women? That point is just asinine. The human race is doomed then, fuck it. What a bunch of boring emotionless drones we'll become if we all start believing that.
i lost something very important to me in my life years ago,im not going to be happy till i get it back
Not the human race, but maybe some westerners.Quote:
Originally Posted by ShaDynasty
LOL@Zooruka dissing women hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha. I agree with you.
You're the one who brought this biological bullshit in to it but now you want to bring up emotions? We are drones. We are supposed to be servants of the Earth playing our small part to nature like every other animal and living species that inhabits this Earth.Quote:
Originally Posted by ShaDynasty
Life isn't meant to be exciting, that's a human beings interpretation. This new age philosophy of doing shit for fun. Our purpose is to breed and evolve not to marry and get educated and all that shit.
I'm not frowning I'm simply saying it how it is.Quote:
Originally Posted by 5th state
It's fake....therefor it is not of the Spirit.
She's literally using her OUTSIDE body to manipulate for her own desires.
Which in this case is to help out her little sister :
Yet another damsel in distress with no "Knight In Shinning Armour" to save her.
All for OUTSIDE riches....it's pretty funny once you can see it.
She just helped put a nail in the coffin of her sister's future not help it.
What a great lesson to pass on : If you need to, if you get really desperate....
Just sell your flesh become the snake-charmer that's how I helped you.
That's the secret weapon? really?
So what happens when someone of strong heart with the INSIDE navigation
Who can see the charade tells them to get up?
He sees the fakery and says I wanted the real you.
You ever hear that kinda shit?
Who is more coveted now?
(you see how this works?)
The Man or The Woman?
I'd be willing to bet after being spoken to like that
She's felt something no man has given her before-
Or remembered what it felt like to be a real woman.
Because it was real = From The INSIDE.
Look I'm not trying to come across as looking down at people....
I just come from a different perspective and I'm tired of seeing all these lies everywhere
People swimming around in propaganda and passing more of it around as truth.
As The Hound has eluded to a few times already : men need that shit....more.
Or more accurately believe the hype that is around them and become surrounded by it.
Now in her mind I'd say she doesn't even class it as "Making Love" as to justify her actions.
This is why I say it's fake :
She's giving off the impression that for whatever reason - she wants him.
The level of emotional control and manipulation is at a very high degree.
Even if it's obviously clear that it's hollow and a simple business transaction to both.
It's become such a 1up-manship-toxic-mist which has kept man in this beast-mode
So much that he can no longer see the person on the INSIDE
Of what houses her (her body)
And now we have 2 animals having sex instead of 2 humans making love....
Like howling at The Moon similar to Cartoon Wolf-Whistles at the attractive Woman-
Who's simply walking down the street wondering why she is being looked at like that?
Anyway, this becomes such a constant theme though all of us-
That now we believe that :
"This Is A Man's World - But It Wouldn't Be Nothing....Without A Woman"
So now who's higher The Man or The Woman? Can't they be equal?
If Man made Woman what she is today, (The Lady In Red)
Whether be it Adam's Rib....The Woman that'll die for her kids
Or the Lustful Eyes that built a Pedestal for her to become the pinnacle-
Then they are clearly a part of us - the side we pay no attention too
(the princess, the nurturer, the mother, the lover, the real woman)
The Woman was replaced by the "Sexier Model" which became "The Lady In Red"
She runs this reality in the form of perversion of what was once real - on many levels.
[ALLAH = ALL / GOD = GOOD] it was man who made it (ALMIGHTY & GREAT)
What was sacred INSIDE has been turned into an OUTSIDE fashion show
The only time you really C the INSIDE come through by the oppressed is when :
A Father holds his child for the 1st time = everything on the OUTISDE no longer matters
It's extremely rare to see in everyday life because the OUTSIDE dictates peoples lives.
Kids are the exception they speak from the INSIDE always.
Like Vader said : "Search Your Feelings You Know It To Be True"
We have detached ourselves from that of the INSIDE of ourselves....
What used to be used to navigate us through what we call life would be INSIDE.
However most now are governed by the OUTSIDE (her sister for example)
While thinking it's their INSIDE telling them ("We" need to help her....)
I could talk about this sort of shit forever.
Like I said it becomes a Paradox on the OUTSIDE but to sum it up :
We are all basically Pinocchio without Jiminy Cricket trying to become a real boy/girl.
^^ OK, I'm not gonna front ; this actually gave me something to think about, Guarded By Martyrs. I get what you're saying in your latest post, not sure yet I agree 100%, but I gotta admit : some of the things you said in that post resonated with me.
I'll get back to you on this later, maybe tomorrow, maybe in a few days.
Well this I guess is the duality of man. We're constrained to a degree by nature but we evolved to the point we want to completely rid ourselves of it and be a society that is purely man made.Quote:
Originally Posted by The Hound
Pretty good analysis of the state of affairs these days.Quote:
Originally Posted by ShaDynasty
There's a lot of truth in there.Quote:
Originally Posted by Guarded By Martyrs
You really started me thinking things over with your last post.
When I mentioned the girl who was helping out her sister and you replied concerning that situation, it made me think of something else that happened to me. Some time last year I visited a bar in my hometown where 2 sisters were actually working side to side as prostitutes. (Didn't know this right away, found out 'afterwards'.) What you said in your post applies to that situation as well, even more so.
The thing is, when dealing with prostitutes you get into a lot of sad situations for a lot of people (less so with call girls, I imagine). I have been in sex addiction therapy for about three months now, and I feel I've made a huge change (so far). While I was sceptical of your first posts in this thread, your latest post has really helped me put a few things into perspective. So thank you for that.
5th State, what do you mean you get into sad situations when dealing with prostitutes? I gave up dealing with prostitutes because i don't like wasting money. If i don't have a girlfriend until i die, i don't care. Fuck women. Women will never change until men stop talking to them. If men stopped talking to them, women will change their ways because women don't like being ignored by men.
I'm sure the struggle is realQuote:
Originally Posted by 5th state
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LOL @ the gif!
Hey, the first world needs problems too. Just imagine we were all just living it up all the time... Can't have that now, can we?
I'm not mad at anyone here on or in real life cuz I feel tons better than 3 months ago. I have a responsibility to keep myself in check so i don't go off the deep end again, like in 2006, when I was convicted of attempted manslaughter (bar fight gone very wrong).
Well, it's not anyone's dream job, so sometimes they tell you about the circumstance which made them get into that life. Or sometimes it just shows.Quote:
Originally Posted by CharlesJones
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Originally Posted by 5th state
Damn 5th State had to shank some belgian latin king on his first day in lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by 5th state
I am fairly happy with life, done most of the things I aspired to do so far. Only problem is I am 26 and ever since I graduated 4 years ago I have been constantly working. I feel like I am missing out on my youth a little. I have enough money to do anything I want, but instead of 'fucking' around I have worked, earned money bought houses basically invested in the future but I am missing the now. I am fully aware of this but just can't change it, just the way I am.
On the topic of prostitutes, in my building there lives 3 escorts, 2 in one apartment across from me. First they earn a shitload, apartments in my building are expensive, over a million quid in value the rent is out of this world. I chat to one of them and I did ask why she does it and she said its for the money. She earns around £80-100k a year pays very little tax instead of the 45% she should be paying and said that if she got a normal job she would never be in a position to earn anymore than £30k a year. Which i can understand in this day and age in such a material world if letting randoms fuck her for money allows her to live in a high end area of the city and buy expensive cloths and shit, well what can you do. Its the easy way out though.
And yes I tried to fuck her but without paying, which failed miserably but I gave it a shot. I do agree that banging escorts is actually cheaper than a girlfriend.
I was gonna suggest a change of scenery and try living in the UK for a year or two to experience a different lifestyle...but owwwwwww yup....owwwwQuote:
Originally Posted by HANZO
LOL at Han's story. Yeah, i'm assuming that having an escort every now and then is cheaper than a girlfriend. My ex was very low maintenance. I used to joke with her and call her a fuel efficient pussy. Now I'm talking to a girl that the exact opposite. I told this girl to get us shots and this maniac went and got Patron shots with my debit card. What type of shit is that?! they're like 15 dollars a shot you witch, smh
then she started telling me that she can't drink house drinks or cheap vodak, that it has to be ciroc or patron or else she gets sick. Bitch you better guzzle this Bartons and take an advil.
I like the girl but she constantly wants to eat and places that make no fucking sense and go to clubs with extortionate door fees. We've been talking for 3 weeks, and last week was the start of the 'the hell is wrong with you nigga' era where I try to go back to my normal no pussy getting budget. So far so good but damn.
as far as the thread, everything is good though the past two years has been shit and have derailed me a lot. I'm learning to change my thinking and way of doing things to assure I don't make the same mistakes as before and stay 100% focused on my goals, which oddly enough talking to a girl is ruining.
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Originally Posted by TSA
Lmfao @ calling that chick a witch for ordering expensive shots. I feel TSA, though. Women can definitely fuck up your focus if you let them.
Charles Barry, you're right that women will make men lose their focus. Men need to be focusing on getting jobs and getting money. Most women don't want hard working men anyway if you think about it. When I say hard working men, i'm talking about men that work at factories, warehouses, construction, driving delivery trucks, car mechanics, electricians, plumbers, maintenance technicians, grocery stores in different departments like produce, deli, dairy, unloading trucks, guys that work at Walmart and Target stocking shelves with products, janitors. Most women will go after guys that got jobs wearing a suit and tie, rappers, NBA players, NFL players, movie stars, singers because when you got jobs like these, you can live a lavish lifestyle and that's what women want.
Even women go after drug dealers because there's a lot of money you can get but it doesn't last long because most drug dealers end up dead and in prison. So men need to focus on getting a job and stacking money and don't be trying to get women to pay attention to you. If they don't pay attention to you, fuck them. Do what you gotta do to survive and take care of yourself. Sad thing is so many men only care about sex and think about sex when they see women. So they'll continue to chase women and that's why women don't chase men because they know men will chase them LOL.
Bitches most definitely go after plumbers, electricians, carpenters etc over here, "tradies get the ladies" as they say plus those guys get ridiculously good money compared to factory work and shit.
It's in a woman's nature to be a gold digger.
Your posts are always on point.Quote:
Originally Posted by HANZO
I'm not happy with my life because I still don't have a full time job and I don't know when I'm gonna get one. I've given the employment office 17 jobs and outta those 17 jobs, I've been to only 4 interviews and I haven't been called to let me know if I got the job. Looking for a job really depresses me and makes me pissed off. My car wouldn't start yesterday and a neighbor of mine checked out my car to see what the problem is. He told me what parts I needed to get and my dad took me to the auto parts store today to get the parts. I'm lucky my dad is around because I don't have any money in my savings account to get my car fixed and I'm glad he helped me because I need my car to get to my part time job. If I didn't have a car, I'd be homeless and unemployed. If my car acts up again later, I'm gonna end up homeless and I might move back to Cleveland because the cost of living there is less expensive and I might be able to get a job there. I'm just really sad about my situation because I had a full time job that I lost in June that I didn't wanna leave and I'm mad that I'm not there anymore. I gave that job 9 years and it pisses me off that management decided to hire a contractor to replace me so they can save money.
I'm sick and tired of these foreigners in America getting jobs and making it hard for black men to get jobs. Racist white men wonder why there's so much crime and unemployment in black neighborhoods and their bitch asses wanna say black men are lazy and they don't wanna work which is a lie. Yes I know there's some black men that don't want a job and would rather sell drugs but most poor unemployed black men want jobs and they want jobs that pay good. Bottom line is most jobs that are owned by white men don't want black men working for them because black men scare them. They would rather hire foreigners than black men because they can pay them a low salary and give them no medical and dental insurance. Foreigners aren't gonna complain about it because if they do, they'll get deported back to their countries because they're here illegal and they don't wanna get deported. So they'll just accept the way white men supervisors treat them bad because they don't wanna go back to their shitty countries because they know have better job opportunities in America.
CJ, in all seriousness have you ever in your life gotten to the point of contemplating suicide? I lost my stable job when the company went under due to fucked up mismanagement and haven't been able to get a job since and this city is in one of the 5 or 6 most expensive cities in the world. Not being able to work is really fucking depressing, it really fucks up your whole mind especially when you keep applying and get nowhere and keep applying and all of these agencies just hoarde your information and sell it off. I know it's broken me down to the point I just want to end it all.
It's hard for me to understand how black people have it in the US but I know over here a lot of white people don't get jobs in my city - well, I mean the non-corporate type jobs anyway - because employers prefer to use foreigners as slave labour. They can over work them on minimum wage for hours that are excessive, 6/7 days a week and don't give them many breaks and that because they don't know any better and they accept it because it is better than where they came from. I hate our current government it's all about making rich people richer and removing the working class and essentially having rich and poor.
The Hound, sorry to hear about you being unemployed. How many years have you been unemployed? I've thought about suicide before but i was scared to do it because i can't afford a gun. I would rather shoot myself than swallow pills because i've thought about that too. Yeah i definitely understand what you're talking about when you say foreigners in your country are being used as slave labor at jobs. The same thing is happening to foreigners at jobs in america too. There's also a lot of foreigners that own businesses in poor black neighborhoods here but they won't let blacks work for them. I wish foreigners in america would go back to their countries so black men can get jobs and the jobs overseas that used to be in america need to be shipped back to america. That's the only way unemployment is gonna go away in america. I guess i'll eventually get a full time job. It's just gonna take me longer than i thought to get a job. It just pisses me off when i email jobs my resume and they don't get in touch with me. They could at least let me know something even if they don't wanna hire me.
How do you know the foreigners in the US won't let blacks work for them?