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Plus another thing i don't like about black women is that most of them wanna have kids and they don't think about their job situation and their financial situation. That's the problem now with these black women in the hood that got kids. So many of their dumb asses got kids, don't wanna get a job, living on welfare and raising these kids by themselves because they always pick the worst black men to get involved with.
how many of them have you talked to Chuck ?
I don't know why marriage is considered so hard. I'm way too young right now for it of course, but in my opinion marriage isn't the failure, it's the people who get into it.
Like I know for a fact right now that if I find someone worthy of marriage at some point that's game over. I'd never seek a divorce, I don't think I'd cheat, and I'd work damn hard to please her. The only way I could foresee a marriage falling apart is on the girl.
I think marriage should be mid twenties to early thirties. Men generally reach maturity in their mid twenties and by thirty they're ready to give up the woman to woman lifestyle. By that point it's not just about marrying for "love" and a pretty face. You're old enough for look for a life partner.
Divorce is an opt out. You can go broke and then make your money back. You can't get your life back. I believe in love, but I don't think a lot of young people understand what love is. You don't love that hot girl who has things in common with you. That's a friend. Marriage is on the permanence of actual family. You can't divorce your brother. You can try, but avoiding them doesn't undo the fact they're your blood.
I think marriage should be something you don't quit on. I also think marriage should be a final step in a long road. You got married at 16 when you only live to 30-40. Now we live to 80 and people are getting married at 20 or younger. That's too young. Double the lifespan double the point of marriage. Then have your ideal 1-3 kids (I think more then 5 is foolish because you can't parent them.) But I also think people need to be open to any and all relationships, even if marriage is the highest form of relationship.
when you're actually in a marriage (hopefully a healthy one) you'll know it's so much more.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sean Bateman
Marriage should be simple.
"This is my wife so nobody fucks with her without fucking with me."
Divorce Should be just as simple:
"This is no longer my wife. She's lazy and doesn't read to the kids. If anyone else wants her have at it, cause i'm not fucking with her anymore."
lol you wild
love and marriage are for sissy tit suckers that would drink estrogen daily if it came in a can and was sold at corner stores and gas stations. real motha fuckas plow a path of mothafuckin destruction through any lil harlot that crosses their path like a true mother fuckin conqueror hero.
even if it existed, the mythical trustworthy touch of a loving woman will not harden your skin so it can deflect bullets fella. u want to survive, shoot first and aim for the head cuz them bitches cant touch u when they punk ass is already dead
marriage is something sacred....like people are saying though....its been degraded...
marriage today is just something you do.....its losing the meaning.....
i don't think there is a particular time or age....it all depends on the strength of the relationship....you should spend a few years with somebody though before you jump into marriage most definite.
as for my parents theyre a bad example cause they weren't married, but i definitely want to get married some day....
smhQuote:
Originally Posted by SHRAP
Marriage is the ultimate mark of manhood. You're talking childish pussy shit. A man is somebody who wakes up every morning, gets ready for the day, tries to have breakfast with his kids, makes sure they get on the bus, kisses his wife goodbye, and leaves for work. Then spends his entire day drinking caffeinated beverages in an ideal 50/50 split of working hard and pretending to work, goes to lunch, or even better eats what his wife made for him, grinds out the rest of the day, and comes home. Greets him family, sits down for dinner, talks to his kids about their day and shit, tries to stay in the loop, then spends the rest of his night either helping his kids with homework and shit or watching TV with them or whatever then sends them off to bed, gets ready for bed himself, and then pounds the shit out of his wife.
You know, nineteen-fifties good feeling shit...
He does that five days a week, spends Saturday doing yard work and handyman shit since the kids will be off gallivanting, and then spends the evening reading a book smoking his pipe in the den, and on Sundays they get ready for church and then makes sure his kids do their homework and shit. Being there to talk men shit with a son, or father daughter shit with a girl, or romancing your wife. That's manhood.
try doing all that shit minus the part about the wife and kids cuz the wife in question is too busy fucking other guys and lying about it for the simple reason of her having a vagina disabling her from ever telling the truth about anythingQuote:
Originally Posted by TheBoarzHeadBoy
if u trust a bitch u are stupid PERIOD
i can get down with this. marraige isnt for everyone. a lot of dudes are far too weak and insecure to allow themselves to feel love to the point that they could get hurt. thats why they front about never loving and trusting a woman.
i got married last year, so im no expert. shit is hard sometimes but it's probably the best decision i ever made. my wife held me down for 9 years before we got hitched. before i met her i was on a dangerous path... fuck, i dont even get speeding tickets anymore. im sure that once we have kids things will change and there will be times when im feeling trapped and the wanderlust kicks in, but right now it's all good. it's definitely not for everyone though.
marriage is the worst thing in the whole world.you legally bind yourself to somebody and at any point one of you could just fuck it up beyond control and then there you are ... broken and beaten down and ending up owing more to get out then what you put down to get in.
I would advise people that are considering marriage to just throw their soul away to a religion instead of another person. At least you can break clean from religion.
financial loses can be recouped in time. if you allow yourself to be that dependent of finances than you deserve what you get. i have been broke. i have had money. but i never let either one dictate my happiness or deter me from living my life...Quote:
Originally Posted by Infinity
i can understand philisophical reasons against marraige, but avoiding it for financial reasons is stupid. marrying for financial reasons is equally as stupid also...
wasn't talking about funds.I mean the mental aspect of how marriage can ruin someone.
If you're insecure it's because you aren't doing it right. Maybe get your shit together and the girl won't feel the want to cheat. Or you could just get a bigger dick...Quote:
Originally Posted by SHRAP
I agree. Breathing isn't for everyone either. Some people don't belong in society. Whichever wise ass made shooting people illegal is a killjoy. I want the old west. Too many people these days fucking around with no repercussions. I blame the liberals, but that's another story for another day.Quote:
Originally Posted by cutn' heads
I disagree. While I think the legal aspect of marriage is foolish. I think it's for the best. I don't think you need anyone's permission to be married, I think all marriages should be designed like common law marriage. If you want to see a priest fine, but marriage is more of a partnering then anything else. However I don't think it should be something done lightly or undone easily. Life's not supposed to be fun or easy. Marriage is just something people do. Ultra-liberated relationships work until she's pregnant. Realistically regardless of what the law says you can't get a divorce once there are kids. You're bound together for life. May as well try to make it work. I just think the whole separated parents and step parents shit is unfair to the kids.Quote:
Originally Posted by Infinity
See that's a good perspective. Way I see it, life's chess and we're all pawns moving around a big chessboard. We have control in that we can change columns in certain scenarios, but ultimately we're stuck moving forwards, we can't go back, and we have no control over that bishop sucker punching us in the balls. Most people will never reach the far side of the board, and only those people will be able to do what they want. But that doesn't mean the rest of us can't be happy or make the most of it.Quote:
Originally Posted by cutn' heads
...Your questioning other peoples manhood? Not only are you so much of a "sissy tit sucker" that you admit your afraid of having your trust abused and not being man enough to be able to handle it, but you aren't even man enough to put yourself in a situation where there is any chance of that happening to begin with...Quote:
Originally Posted by SHRAP
or..
...this.Quote:
^doesn't get pussy
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u guys are fucking stupid to think that there is no such thing as a bitch that u can turn the fuck out who will turn around and fuck you up anyway. women are whores by nature and u really want to be the bitch of a bitch?
Yeah, there are plenty of stupid bitches. There are just as many stupid guys. Your attitude is as bad as what do. Its pretty obvious if a girl is using you. Just keep your boys. They'll be your compass. A mans buds are his guide in life. I give my bros advice all the time with chicks and they do the same for me. If I know their bitch is good I'll tell them not to fuck it up and if she's a cunt im all over that telling him to break her heart.
Like one of my boys just broke up with his girlfriend because her pussy was too tight and i tried advising him against it because that seems crazy, but he said he can barely even get it in. And I was like "whats she working with a keyhole?" But he said hes even warmed her up and she was still way too tight and I gave him my stamp of broproval and he did work. I was looking out for my boys interests because he's been sort of going out with her for a while and they'd hooked up off and one for like a year so I thought he was out of his mind but if you can't even have sex and shit whats the point. Getting brain is nice but that shits fucked and I want my boy to be slaying his fair share not trapped in some stagnant shit.
Most definitely "elder talk"Quote:
Originally Posted by SUNNY WINTERS
Most definitely "knowledge of self"Quote:
Originally Posted by Face of the Golden Falcon
i'm 4 years shackled and i love it
only wished she would have proposed better
we were on the couch playing soul caliber and she just said wanna get married
and i said ya
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Originally Posted by Louis Cypher
lol - don't spend too much time together
Naw that's nice.Quote:
Originally Posted by Louis Cypher
up
i dont know about marriage
one day though
maybe
people approach marriage on sum left brained shit. thats a problem
Marriage is like the Bible and Quran, prophets and messengers....its for weak minded people
if you and your partner are truly joined together you will stay together forever and you need no other intermediaries to make that happen!!!!!
True, if you love someone then you shouldn't have to go through the whole process and need a ring to prove it and a priest to confirm it. But then again it's nice to have something to make it official and a day to remember even though it can cause a lot of unnecessary expense and stress! Can't really see myself ever being married now though I would with the right person if thats what they wantedQuote:
Originally Posted by knowcheeze
yeah eye must admit if whoever it is da universe blesses da god with wanted to get married eye would do it
marriage will only be an issue when there are kids involved. unmarried people and their kids don't get the same rights as married people when it comes to the law.
The bridezillas out there scare me.
Thats definatly true as well! From a female pov would u wanna get married Trix if u found the one or would u just be happy being with that person?Quote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trixˣ
i don't know. if i had kids with them then i probably would.
whats the difference beetween bride zolla and a 5....5 dolla.....5 dolla blow job givin ass hooker????Quote:
Originally Posted by check two
not much
commitment and accountability are a muthfucka.
best to stay away from these two things that come with marriage in case things get challenging and you wanna bail.
if i get married then it would only be for the protection of my children's rights.
So true. I guess those other 'marriages' are not really real, just business deals.Quote:
Originally Posted by knowcheeze
ego's gotta be compromised for any sign of love surface
someone gimme a breakdown of the word marriage..
Mr falcon come thru..
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Originally Posted by CharlesJones