So tell me, what are the special circumstances where cheating is justified for men and women?
this is the question you've all failed to answer.
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So tell me, what are the special circumstances where cheating is justified for men and women?
this is the question you've all failed to answer.
It's pretty obvious i've been cheated on. and at the beginning of your post you know that i don't know why. which is why i am here. do i sound like i'm repeating myself again?Quote:
Originally Posted by rakimkoolgrapwutang
Anyway we're just going around in circles. i've lost my energy for repeating myself .
i'm just glad i didn't have a kid with him.
With todays technology there are so much choice in the way people communicate. if one form of communication doesn't work then try others.
If you spend time with your partner and get to know them you should know what will turn your fairy tale princess into a man hating tyrant. but women have problems with communicating too. sometimes it's about what people don't say than what they do say. if saying it a certain way is going to hurt then think of a different way to say it. don't ignore the problem by going out and fucking someone else cos that solves nothing.
Why don't rappers make music you can listen to with your girl? the music you wouldn't mind your kids listening to. seems it impresses young men. music by men for men.
because they'd sound weak if they don't talk about blunts, guns, bitches, money and cars. this genre is dying because there isn't much difference in the material out there for the past 20 years. change the record.
bob marley sang about love. does that make him or his music weak?
:vroar:You are all aware of bob marley aren't you? was he a pussy for singing about love?
In fact all the great and most respected singers sung about love. all the best known songs and the most loved songs are about love.
think trixx makes some good points but you're looking in the wrong place for relationship advice! As u said just be glad theres no kids involved and stop trying to figure out why or what you did wrong. I've been cheated on and yeah it hurts but once I stopped trying to place blame I accepted it just happened and wasn't meant to be, move on... As stated numerous times its human nature to be attracted to other people even when your in a relationship, especially if you've been with the same person for a long time. It's down to the individual whether they choose to cheat or not. If they do then the relationship probably didn't mean as much to them as you would like to believe it did and you're better off out of there!
It was quite recent. how quickly should a person get over it before the whole thing never meant that much to them in the first place?
Of course i will move on from this. I'm lucky i found out when i did. it doesn't matter to me who was to blame for my ex cheating on me. i don't want him back.
i wanted some insight into why people cheat. i asked men why they cheat because i've been affected by cheating. the person that cheated is in denial so i couldnt get any answers from him so i've come here. i assumed you are intelligent men in here that could hold down a serious discussion. build.
You said you've been cheated on. did you find out why?Quote:
Originally Posted by hashashin
well if it was just recent then obviously its still gonna hurt, theres no set time limit on how long it takes to get over it. Suppose it depends on how much you cared for that person, how long you were together etc.. I just meant the relationship couldn't mean that much to him if he's gonna cheat on you and not try to work out any issues you may have had... I just think people cheat cos they get bored being in a relationship with the same person for a long time but obviously theres different individual circumstances involved in each case that we don't know about! If your in a relationship and really want it to work then u would work hard at trying to solve your issues, difficult as that may be, rather than going out and fucking someone else. If I was in that situation and couldn't work it out I would rather just end the relationship before I cheated on them
It was years ago now, think we were both just too young to commit to a serious relationship. Truth is I wanted out too so while it did hurt for a long time the reality is that it did me a favor cos I ended it soon as I found out without me having to feel like the guilty party!Quote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
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Originally Posted by hashashin
it must have been a little serious if it hurt for a long time. if you wanted out anyway then that gave you a reason for getting out. if there's no kids then there's no complications. well i say no complications i meant less complications. cos when you're cheating with someone, the person you're cheating with or cheated with will complicate things. there will be history there and complications that will become part of your life whether you want it or not.
cheaters spend a lot of time lying. they lie day in day out. every day is a lie. their existence is based on lies. whether it's men or women.
last edited 5:52 am..Holy shit.....do you sleep woman?LOL
OK this might have been more serious than I thought so how about it OD trixx, tell us your story..and the TRUE reason behind you making this thread