but they are both extremely strange.
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but they are both extremely strange.
also both had serious mental problems, which they expressed in different ways, but i get what you're saying.
Few slaps during childhood is ok. When you really mess up, you should get slapped.
But constant beating, usually proves wrong in the future.
aint nothin wrong with yo daddeh!!
I dont know what "beating" referes to but my parents slapped me and/or spanked me when i fucked around as a youngin. Im obviously biased but i think it teaches kids to respect their parents a little more. They never used any objects on me only hands lol.
I saw.. something
it.....it....came...from...the.....mist!
I wouldnt say it wasn't human, but..I'd prefer... well i'd just prefer not to talk about it, ok?
my mom had a board with holes drilled in it to reduce wind resistance that she smacked my ass with. im glad she did kinda even though i was like RUN when i saw it lol. some of these kids i see nowadays need to get slapped around a little bit.they think they cant get away with whatever cuz of the no hitting rules. kinda like TSA hides behind the cops.
Remember the episode on Good Times tv show when Janet Jackson was burned with a iron by her mom played by Chip Fields who is Kim Fields mom? I felt so bad for Janet watching that because it's wrong to burn a child with a iron. When Janet showed Janet Du'bois who was Willona her scars on her body, Willona couldn't believe it. Willona should've kicked Chip's ass for what she did LOL. Black activist Tavis Smiley says he was beaten by his dad as a child with a electric cord and he hated his dad for a long time because of that. Former dead black boxer Sonny Liston was also beaten by his dad when he was a kid and he ran away from home at 15 years old because of that. I don't know if Mike Tyson was physically abused by his dad when he was a kid. He didn't talk about that in his documentary movie but he did say that he got picked on by ignorant black boys a few times when he was a kid and that's how he learned to fight. I don't think Mike Tyson is strange. He used to act like a animal at times when he was younger but you gotta understand why he acted like that. The fucked up neighborhood he came from and black boys was fucking with him for no reason made him act the way he did. Plus his dad abandoned him when he was a kid. Watching his documentary movie made me see a different side of him because i used to believe that he was messed up in the head but he's changed a lot since his younger days.
My dad whipped my brother and i when we were kids. Sometimes he made us get naked and whip us and sometimes he would put his leg on my neck so i couldn't get up when i hollered because the belt hurt my ass. I used to hate my dad because of the whippings he gave me and now i'm starting to understand why my dad acts the way he does. When he would get mad at my brother and i, he would yell and curse at us and sometimes he still does that. My dad's father left him when he was a kid and i know that upset my dad. Plus his mom would yell at him when he did something wrong. So i think that's where he got the yelling and cursing from. RIP to my dad's mom.
Trixx, i will never date men. Fuck being gay. I will always love women. They just irritate me and get on my nerves a lot but i love them.
beating ur kids everytime they make a mistake can make serious confident issues when the kids grow older. if u scream and hit ur kid when he does wrong he is gonna grow up thinking its not in the human nature to make mistakes and therfor go around thinking 'if i make a mistake now, everybodys gonna laugh at me and think im an idiot'
i think most parents dont know this
Agreed, sometimes I think if certain heads had a sterner upbringing
They wouldn't be in the shit they are now.
Of course souly getting beats isn't gonna make them see the error of their ways
But it will make them think twice, personally I don't agree with "beating" your kids
At the same time I think it's a fine line that can easily be crossed.
Which is why...
Thats how I was brought up.
Depends on the parent, like that skit on the Jedi Mind Tricks album :
"Pain Isn't Bad It's Good, You Put Your Hand In Fire...OUCH!
...You Know Not To Do That Again"
Granted most kids will listen to the words being said and respect it, it gets through.
For others, they just can't grasp it, or will continue to persist, knowing what they are doing
As I said it's a thin line, and to completly rule out any type of physical punishment
Can be just as bad & damaging to their future as handing out a great deal of "beatings"
Although I feel it should always be the last resort.