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well if it was just recent then obviously its still gonna hurt, theres no set time limit on how long it takes to get over it. Suppose it depends on how much you cared for that person, how long you were together etc.. I just meant the relationship couldn't mean that much to him if he's gonna cheat on you and not try to work out any issues you may have had... I just think people cheat cos they get bored being in a relationship with the same person for a long time but obviously theres different individual circumstances involved in each case that we don't know about! If your in a relationship and really want it to work then u would work hard at trying to solve your issues, difficult as that may be, rather than going out and fucking someone else. If I was in that situation and couldn't work it out I would rather just end the relationship before I cheated on them
that's the whole purpose of this thread.