it's natural for a man to cheat?

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Originally Posted by SURLY DUFF

I already told you why dude did what he did, you seem to have blown it off.

It seems to me that given the situations you find yourself in, that you might fall for a guy too fast and when he shows his true colors and proves his feelings weren't as strong, it's difficult for you to take.

The wounds are still fresh though, I understand why you're still looking for answers.

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it doesn't make much of a difference how fast i fell for him. married couples cheat and they're married.

most women want relationships. the women are these strings that u talk about. they get attached.

and as i said earlier: It's natural for people to fuck, cheating or not. As a human, its natural to fuck other humans.

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Originally Posted by rakimkoolgrapwutang

i dont think any1 is going in2 enough detail. all we get from OD trixs story is that she got cheated on and all we got from radioactive was that hes had bad experience with lots of women. we dont know how serious these relationships were or anything at all or what they argued about.

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for me it was serious. hanging out regularly with the future in-laws serious.

most women and men have no desire to better themselves as people and erradicate flaws. why not chase perfection? we can acknowledge that we aint perfect but why stop at that?

people who aint built for relationships r having them...thats the problem along with miseducation.

and using the word love? that needs to stop. if you love someone you wont cheat it really is that simple. if someone aint shit they need to realise, and fall back from having a relationship....however their nature wont allow for that

...instead of trying to improve themselves theyd rather blame everyone else for everything that aint right in their lives...including their relationships.

"nobodys perfect" is good to acknowledge but still wouldnt we want to be the best person we could possibly be for those we 'love'??

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Originally Posted by llBARlllCODEll

most women want relationships. the women are these strings that u talk about. they get attached.

and as i said earlier: It's natural for people to fuck, cheating or not. As a human, its natural to fuck other humans.

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it takes two to make a relationship. don't put all the blame on women. last i heard it was still popular to be in relationships. relationships are pretty cool when it's going well.

it's natural to want to fuck other humans but as humans you have a choice whether to fuck or not.

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Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+

it doesn't make much of a difference how fast i fell for him. married couples cheat and they're married.

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It does make a difference, but w/e.

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Originally Posted by D.projectile

most women and men have no desire to better themselves as people and erradicate flaws. why not chase perfection? we can acknowledge that we aint perfect but why stop at that?

people who aint built for relationships r having them...thats the problem along with miseducation.

and using the word love? that needs to stop. if you love someone you wont cheat it really is that simple. if someone aint shit they need to realise, and fall back from having a relationship....however their nature wont allow for that

...instead of trying to improve themselves theyd rather blame everyone else for everything that aint right in their lives...including their relationships.

"nobodys perfect" is good to acknowledge but still wouldnt we want to be the best person we could possibly be for those we 'love'??

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of course it doesn't really count as love if someone you love cheats on you. i know i loved him. he told me he loved me every day.

don't you fall in love when you're in a relationship?

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Originally Posted by D.projectile

most women and men have no desire to better themselves as people and erradicate flaws. why not chase perfection? we can acknowledge that we aint perfect but why stop at that?

people who aint built for relationships r having them...thats the problem along with miseducation.

and using the word love? that needs to stop. if you love someone you wont cheat it really is that simple. if someone aint shit they need to realise, and fall back from having a relationship....however their nature wont allow for that

...instead of trying to improve themselves theyd rather blame everyone else for everything that aint right in their lives...including their relationships.

"nobodys perfect" is good to acknowledge but still wouldnt we want to be the best person we could possibly be for those we 'love'??

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people form relationships in their childhood. little boys and little girls. you might argue that they aren't built for relationships but they still have them.

so what kind of people are built for relationships? and where do you think the miseducation comes from and how it affects society? should people be re-educated?

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Originally Posted by SURLY DUFF

It does make a difference, but w/e.

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please tell me how it makes a difference?

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Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+

of course it doesn't really count as love if someone you love cheats on you. i know i loved him. he told me he loved me every day.

don't you fall in love when you're in a relationship?

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I've 'been in love' but that aint the same as loving someone

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Originally Posted by D.projectile

I've 'been in love' but that aint the same as loving someone

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what is the difference?

i've talked about love for parents, animals, etc,

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Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+

people form relationships in their childhood. little boys and little girls. you might argue that they aren't built for relationships but they still have them.

so what kind of people are built for relationships? and where do you think the miseducation comes from and how it affects society? should people be re-educated?

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I should have used the word healthy relationship...the degree to which one is subject to wrongfulness-selfishness determines how healthy a relationship will be

they should be re-educated once they're ready yh...

and the parents of these little boys n girls need educate and be parents..but then these parents are also flawed and so r their parents. become the best person you can be and should rightfully have a man you who's gonna treat you right n proper

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Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+

what is the difference?

i've talked about love for parents, animals, etc,

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love doesnt hurt..and its real

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Originally Posted by D.projectile

I should have used the word healthy relationship...the degree to which one is subject to wrongfulness-selfishness determines how healthy a relationship will be

they should be re-educated once they're ready yh...

and the parents of these little boys n girls need educate and be parents..but then these parents are also flawed and so r their parents. become the best person you can be and should rightfully have a man you who's gonna treat you right n proper

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i second that.

can you imagine the little boy hitting on his own little sister and not know they're related? that's probably a reality for some. a reality that i don't want to happen to my children, if i ever have them.

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Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+

i know i loved him. he told me he loved me every day.

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Therein lies part of the problem.

You felt strongly about your love for him, that doesn't mean your feelings were fully reciprocated.

People will say all types of things to have someone stick around when they're lonely, even if it's throwing the word "love" around with on concern.

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Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+

people form relationships in their childhood. little boys and little girls. you might argue that they aren't built for relationships but they still have them.

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I agree with this.

Then again, I was touching girl's naughty places before a lot of kids around here were born.

So my experiences might be different, comparatively.

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Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+

please tell me how it makes a difference?

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See answer #1.