it's natural for a man to cheat?

he goes hard.

WE GO HARD!! ANYBODY CAN SIGN UP!!

IT'S EITHER IN U or U WANT IT IN U

lmao

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Originally Posted by RADIOACTIVE MAN

i agree with check two...honestly i think youre still hurting, the wounds are fresh and as much as we have had this debate and are on the opposite sides of it, i do hope you find the closure you need and balance in your life to erase the pain. Just know, what i have told you in this thread is the most honest answer you gonna get from any man in regards with the situation..ive been on both sides of the fences and have no agenda or reason to lie to you. what you need to do when you get time..is read every point expressed here and take something from them about the state of mind of most men in general and know..the enemy most of you women fight..is one alot of yall created when you felt you were in a position of power over men. ill repeat..for a dude to cheat alot..something triggered it, ive given you a few examples, think about it

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i never saw him as an enemy. i loved him. and i don't see other men as the enemy either cos they've done nothing to me.

what i gathered from this thread is that men and women will want to satisfy their sexual needs at whatever cost.

whatever triggers it is down to the individual but the outcome still ends with people getting hurt.

still doesn't give me any answers on finding a long loving relationship. i guess this place really was not the place to find answers.

people choose to be part of the problem or part of the solution. negative energy attracts negative energy. have a nice day.

Well, at least you're clean...

well i'm strong enough not to let a man that lies and cheats change my values or make me bitter about all men.

i just hope there are decent men out there who will treat me with the same respect i show them.

i didnt mean you personally saw him as an enemy but what im saying is, there might be a history, a genesis to why he did what he did to you, who knows, you might have been one of the good ones but maybe..just maybe..a shitload of the jezebels out there broke his will in the past and he decided to do what will keep him away from a probably reoccuring situation. my point is, even villains have a past, sometimes they pasts start off in paradise then they are introduced to hell and they realize how surreal life can be.

humanity is weak in a sense, especially when it comes to emmotions and controlling them,thats why there are wars,thats why greed exists,thats why alot is going to shit but every experience too is worth going through,even the bad ones, because through them,you know exactly whats good for you, you know exactly what you deserve. but you must not only look at the faults of the other party,but within too, to improve on what isnt a definite thing,the human charecter. Right now,im happy with my girl and havent even thought of cheating on her once,hell i even reject advances now..why? because she hasnt given me any reason to want any other options, the void i wanted filled is being filled at the moment by her, there is absolutely no reason for me to break her heart, but before that, i went through the phase, i fucked many women before i met her..through all those experiences..i learnt more and more,what i wanted till i found it. thats part of the lesson of life. to buy a car..test drive it first to see if it meets all your needs, a family man wouldnt want to invest in a convertable..now would he?

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She got dumped on by a nigga with a Plan A...

Let's leave shit alone.

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Well, at least you're clean...

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still doesn't give me any answers on finding a long loving relationship. i guess this place really was not the place to find answers.

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i thought u wanted to know why men cheat? or just if its natural for men to cheat?

to answer your new question
dont be clingy. suck his dick as much as possible. learn how to cook and clean and make your own money. dont talk about marriage or children. use birth control UNTIL HE IS READY to be Al Bundy. dont call him every single minute when he isnt home or in your company

even tho this could still back fire, this is my best advice

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Originally Posted by RADIOACTIVE MAN

i didnt mean you personally saw him as an enemy but what im saying is, there might be a history, a genesis to why he did what he did to you, who knows, you might have been one of the good ones but maybe..just maybe..a shitload of the jezebels out there broke his will in the past and he decided to do what will keep him away from a probably reoccuring situation. my point is, even villains have a past, sometimes they pasts start off in paradise then they are introduced to hell and they realize how surreal life can be.

he does have a past but he told me he'd learned from it

humanity is weak in a sense, especially when it comes to emmotions and controlling them,thats why there are wars,thats why greed exists,thats why alot is going to shit but every experience too is worth going through,even the bad ones, because through them,you know exactly whats good for you, you know exactly what you deserve.
i have learned something from my recent break up. i learned not to trust men. not even the ones that are obsessed with you.

but you must not only look at the faults of the other party,but within too, to improve on what isnt a definite thing,the human charecter. Right now,im happy with my girl and havent even thought of cheating on her once,hell i even reject advances now..why? because she hasnt given me any reason to want any other options, the void i wanted filled is being filled at the moment by her, there is absolutely no reason for me to break her heart, but before that, i went through the phase, i fucked many women before i met her..through all those experiences..i learnt more and more,what i wanted till i found it. thats part of the lesson of life. to buy a car..test drive it first to see if it meets all your needs, a family man wouldnt want to invest in a convertable..now would he?

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the void is filled? what happens when something goes wrong? do you put in the effort to work things out or move on?

if the void has been filled in the past it can be filled again. unless someone does something unacceptable to the other.

You cant let one bad break up stop you from trusting all men. I can't answer for certain why u got cheated on but I can tell u that your never gonna find that long lasting, loving relationship that your looking for if your never gonna trust anyone again....

i have a rule. when someone fucks me over, they gost to get the fuck stepping,if something goes wrong,especially if it involves cheating,she is out and she knows it,because i made it clear to her,i believe thats why she does everything to be the best woman she can be because she knows with me,she doesnt have to worry about anything, we help each other through the worst of times and she knows one thing about me,im a man of my word,if i promised her loyalty like i did, then thats what she is going to get so screwing that up knowing what she knows would make her nothing but trash that needs to be thrown out