for the men who cheat because another female was better in bed, does that make it ok for women to cheat because another male has a bigger dick? or lasts longer?
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for the men who cheat because another female was better in bed, does that make it ok for women to cheat because another male has a bigger dick? or lasts longer?
EVERYONE WHO CHEATS CHOOSES TO CHEAT. PLAIN AND SIMPLE.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
It's the exact same thing, I'm not getting your question.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
i know it's the same thing, but men reckon they can do it and it's not wrong for them to do it.
So what if they say it? Doesn't mean it's right, same thing for women. If you choose to commit to one person I.E. couple/marriage then it's not right. period. And all of your "but men" posts makes me feel like you've been played. Women cheat as much IF NOT more than men, they are just very very more on the low with it, there's ton of men out here who will never know their wife cheated on themQuote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
the same can be said about women stuck indoors with kids while their men are at work with their female colleagues.
but i'm not saying women don't cheat, but there are reasons for cheating like you've explained. and i'm just here to discuss reasons behind cheating, not about who cheats and who doesn't.
what do you mean the same can be said? What are you referring to? Why women cheat? My bad for being confused it's just that your sentence didn't have any relation to my last post.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
when you said there's a ton of men who will never know if their wives have cheated on them.
Oh ok cool. You're right it's the same thing. But let's before real, a man will be revealed about his dirty doings before a woman is.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
would that make it any less wrong?
Nah, as i've stated before it's wrong on both sides, no matter what. I was just making a different point supporting my previous statement that some men will never know that their women cheats on them. Men tend to do stuff to fuck up that secrecy faster than a women would.
ppl cheat because its natural for one to want something they cant/dont have. if 2 ppl that are in a relationship are progressive thinkers, they would know how to separate love & lust. lust come and go and/or is for the moment while love takes time to at least feel youve connected with the right person and vice versa.
if ppl knew how to not attach emotions with their physical sexual desires life will be much simpler and will eliminate drama that emerge among couples due to infidelity. unfortunately however, not all of us are monks that can curb our instincts and natural humanistic behavior.
to answer Trixx's question about why is it wrong if women do it... its no different if women cheat, its the same shit regardless of why they did it or what made them cheat, result is always the same thing. in the society we live in, cheating is defined as fucking someone other than the one youre in a committed relationship with without their knowledge of the act.
fact is, men are portrayed as superior to women in most parts of the world. just looking at The States alone women couldnt even vote until 1920.. lol thats pretty much saying...uh...no we dont want your input in this at all just stick to what youre good at : housework.
countless examples thruout history plays a part on why women are unfairly portrayed if they cheat compared to men and a great example would be religion, especially christianity. theyve succeeded in manipulating the world that sex is a bad thing.. lol they made it look like as if its wrong to have sex to enjoy it, rather we should only fornicate for reproduction purposes. even chnaged scriptures within their own circuit, most christians are taught that mary magdaline was a whore. lol
the main thing that makes this whole shit complicated is the "rules" that we follow and are programmed to since we are born. once you learn to step out and look at the big picture you will be able to come up with your own answers and a good way to start is honest communication with the person you are in a relationship with.
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if you're in a monogamous relationship you're supposed to have emotions attached to your sexual desires. that's what makes it a relationship. are you saying people shouldn't have relationships at all?Quote:
Originally Posted by tekunique
and no one was asking anyone to be a monk and curb sexual desires. if you're in a relationship you're meant to have sex and have sexual desires for the person you're with, no one else. if there are others you desire sexually then you gotta control that urge. people have choices, unfortunately some people choose to fuck up.
i think a very important factor when looking at cheating is the coolidge effect (Coolidge effect is a phenomenon—seen in nearly every mammalian species in which it has been tested—whereby males (and to a lesser extent females) exhibit renewed sexual interest if introduced to new receptive sexual partners,[1][2][3][4] even after refusing sex from prior but still available sexual partners). i think men would cheat more cuz theyre more sexually charged if that makes sense. if a man is caught in a bad situation itd probably treat. but he'll probably b ashamed afterwards. i think whn a female cheats theyd b more likely to look 4 some1 2 seduce cuz theyre unsatisfied.
theres advantages and disadvantages 2 cheating and every1s got their own moral code and they can decide 4 themselves.
to answer the question yes its somewhat natural 2 cheat cuz of the coolidge effect and its exciting and interesting 2 have some1 new and theres also the danger factor. even if u dont want 2 cheat at all u would probably still look and think about other people apart from ur poartner in a sexual way. but people can make a conscious decision for themselves and dont have 2 act on impulses
no thats not what i meant, im saying if you slept with someone other than your bf/gf/hunband/wife, its most likely based on lust. if you leave it at that iand move on it will prevent alot of bullshit you may have to deal with along the way but its just that us humans tend to get emotionally attached to ppl that we get intimate with, even if it were meant to be just casual sex with no strings attached.
one night stand --- casual fuck buddy --- start trading gifts, befriend on social networks --- consistent fuck buddy --- official mistress of the past year --- wife finds out/confess to her --- divorce --- marry the one night stand. repeat process.
^^ isnt that pretty much it ? mainly due to the fact its hard for us to curb our emotions and affinity towards the ones you fuck. specially if she's a decent person overall besides the fact she likes being cummed on her face.
hahahaha
why try to make sense of it at all? i'm a bigger weirdo than most and i still don't understand half the weird shit people do.
lol i'm dating somebody right now, and basically i'm acting to her like a completely different person than i actually am because she wouldn't deal with me otherwise. the shit won't last anyway, but at least i can fuck her when i'm bored.
that could actually b really fun though. u could make a whole new personality and make up a lotta shit and a whole new background. make it interesting. tell her u was a professional egg breaker/smeller (its a job where u have 2 seperate yolks and whites and get rid of bad eggs) who always got employee of the month until u were caught having an affair with the bosss daughter and u got fired. act dead serious when u say this and see if she believes u.Quote:
Originally Posted by 2PAC HOLOGRAM
i thought a lot of guys pretend to be a nice person in relationships?
if you're in a relationship/married and have kids you're meant be in it together. see when people cheat things fuck up. i know when i get married i don't want my husband to be getting anyone else pregnant when he is supposed to be married to me. i'm sure you wouldn't want your wives to get pregnant by some next dude either.
i want to cheat on youQuote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
hmmmm
wheres the fun in that. i dunno maybe the bosses daughter had an abusive husband and she came to you 4 help.Quote:
Originally Posted by 2PAC HOLOGRAM
Palantine, since you're being honest with me from the start i might just agree to it. but we could only last a few weeks though.
Ill meet you in the 3rd bush on the left as you enter Hyde Park from the North East corner.
Ive been in here since a Motorhead gig in early 2010.
did you just get cheated on recently to bring this thread up again?
i ain't fucking you in no bushes.Quote:
Originally Posted by Senator C. Palantine
and another thing, i get to cheat on you too!
Its not a real bush, you enter via some pleasant enough looking foliage into a gaping man made casm that would fit 12 men in comfortable living conditions.
I call it the 'Blackula cave'.
x-amount of boys with no father around (cos their mother was just someone their father was fucking around with) do not know who their fathers are. those boys will need a male role model to look up to. so, they look to their favourite celebrities. celebrities are the role models for these boys, and they look to rappers/rockers/popstars/actors/whatever. cos being in the house growing up the celebrities are the people that are in those boys homes on their tv sets.
x-amount of girls with no father will not know how a man is supposed to take care of a wife and mother. i guess that goes the same way for boys, too. they don't know when they're being used and don't care if they're being used.
when those x-amount of girls and boys grow up and fuck and have kids themselves what values would those now grown up kids pass down to their kids?
i'm sure when people cheat they don't consider the consequences of their actions sometimes cos the opportunity of sex comes up and there's no time to find condoms.
I've never cheated while in a relationship and as far as I know I've never been cheated on either.
However, I've been that new new for quite a few ladies.
Married women sniff around me all the time, but I really don't want to destroy a marriage.
I couldn't live with the guilt.
Never cheated in a relationship either, would feel too guilty as well! I think human nature makes it pretty difficult to commit to just 1 person though, if people cheat its probably cos they're bored in a relationship or just want more than what they've got, especially if it's offerered on a plate. If it happens then that other person just obviously isn't 'the one'
Girls need their daily dose of dick as much as guys need their daily dose of the vag, they just don't like to admit it....
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tell a girl with low-self-esteem she's pretty at a party, the next thing you know she'll slob on your knob like corn on the cob; especially if she's having troubles with her boyfriend.......that or daddy issues........
fuck it's gonna suck when my daughters a teen-ager
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Fuck off Alex
^Who's Alex?
man ur hangin out with the wrong people if you're homies need a daily dose of dick. must be listenin to Drake and Lil Wayne or Lil b, livin that lifestyle LMMFAO!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Jordan Michaelz
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Originally Posted by SURLY DUFF
fatal and big smokes and countless others. he enjoys talking to himself .
And this Jordan Michaelz
Trix+
Have you ever dealt with a real man?
I guess not.
You've been decieved by boys.
I feel for you, baby.
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Originally Posted by SURLY DUFF
shit.....that was a typo, my bad.Quote:
Originally Posted by llBARlllCODEll
You sound like a whiny chick, who gets sand in their vagina because they got all butt-hurt over being burned by a dude as if they were the only ones on the planet to have that happen to them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ol' Dirty Trix+
Then you get all, "Guys are all the same it must be genetic" yadda yadda
fuck it has nothing to do with gender; you're a whore or man-whore by choice, that's it...there's no fucking imprinting on DNA to be a deceitful cunt, it's your choice to think with your head or your genitals.
If you got burned, that sucks for you, but you're no different from countless others, and reacting like "all guys are pigs" is stereotyped bullshit, that's no different then saying all black people are bike stealing, professional kool-aid drinking niggers.
Go listen to some emo music, pull some peddles off a flower, and leave the forums with this bullshit, because its nonsense typing about this on a forum that's probably populated by 97% males who don't care to read some chick with guy issues.
now king me bitch
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Yeah where did i say all men are pigs and where did i say anything about dna ?
don't make shit up.
Clearly you have guy issues, so clearly without typing it can go without saying with a thread title saying "its natural for a guy to cheat" is pretty self-explanatory where you stand on the subject
just saying.....
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