Are you happy with your life now

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Originally Posted by Guarded By Martyrs

Even if it's obviously clear that it's hollow and a simple business transaction to both.
It's become such a 1up-manship-toxic-mist which has kept man in this beast-mode

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There's a lot of truth in there.

You really started me thinking things over with your last post.

When I mentioned the girl who was helping out her sister and you replied concerning that situation, it made me think of something else that happened to me. Some time last year I visited a bar in my hometown where 2 sisters were actually working side to side as prostitutes. (Didn't know this right away, found out 'afterwards'.) What you said in your post applies to that situation as well, even more so.

The thing is, when dealing with prostitutes you get into a lot of sad situations for a lot of people (less so with call girls, I imagine). I have been in sex addiction therapy for about three months now, and I feel I've made a huge change (so far). While I was sceptical of your first posts in this thread, your latest post has really helped me put a few things into perspective. So thank you for that.

5th State, what do you mean you get into sad situations when dealing with prostitutes? I gave up dealing with prostitutes because i don't like wasting money. If i don't have a girlfriend until i die, i don't care. Fuck women. Women will never change until men stop talking to them. If men stopped talking to them, women will change their ways because women don't like being ignored by men.

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Originally Posted by 5th state

I have been in sex addiction therapy for about three months now, and I feel I've made a huge change (so far).

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I'm sure the struggle is real

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LOL @ the gif!

Hey, the first world needs problems too. Just imagine we were all just living it up all the time... Can't have that now, can we?


I'm not mad at anyone here on or in real life cuz I feel tons better than 3 months ago. I have a responsibility to keep myself in check so i don't go off the deep end again, like in 2006, when I was convicted of attempted manslaughter (bar fight gone very wrong).

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Originally Posted by CharlesJones

5th State, what do you mean you get into sad situations when dealing with prostitutes? I gave up dealing with prostitutes because i don't like wasting money. If i don't have a girlfriend until i die, i don't care. Fuck women. Women will never change until men stop talking to them. If men stopped talking to them, women will change their ways because women don't like being ignored by men.

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Well, it's not anyone's dream job, so sometimes they tell you about the circumstance which made them get into that life. Or sometimes it just shows.

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Originally Posted by 5th state

when I was convicted of attempted manslaughter

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Originally Posted by 5th state

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LOL @ the gif!

Hey, the first world needs problems too. Just imagine we were all just living it up all the time... Can't have that now, can we?


I'm not mad at anyone here on or in real life cuz I feel tons better than 3 months ago. I have a responsibility to keep myself in check so i don't go off the deep end again, like in 2006, when I was convicted of attempted manslaughter (bar fight gone very wrong).

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Damn 5th State had to shank some belgian latin king on his first day in lol.

I am fairly happy with life, done most of the things I aspired to do so far. Only problem is I am 26 and ever since I graduated 4 years ago I have been constantly working. I feel like I am missing out on my youth a little. I have enough money to do anything I want, but instead of 'fucking' around I have worked, earned money bought houses basically invested in the future but I am missing the now. I am fully aware of this but just can't change it, just the way I am.

On the topic of prostitutes, in my building there lives 3 escorts, 2 in one apartment across from me. First they earn a shitload, apartments in my building are expensive, over a million quid in value the rent is out of this world. I chat to one of them and I did ask why she does it and she said its for the money. She earns around £80-100k a year pays very little tax instead of the 45% she should be paying and said that if she got a normal job she would never be in a position to earn anymore than £30k a year. Which i can understand in this day and age in such a material world if letting randoms fuck her for money allows her to live in a high end area of the city and buy expensive cloths and shit, well what can you do. Its the easy way out though.

And yes I tried to fuck her but without paying, which failed miserably but I gave it a shot. I do agree that banging escorts is actually cheaper than a girlfriend.

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Originally Posted by HANZO

I am fairly happy with life, done most of the things I aspired to do so far. Only problem is I am 26 and ever since I graduated 4 years ago I have been constantly working. I feel like I am missing out on my youth a little. I have enough money to do anything I want, but instead of 'fucking' around I have worked, earned money bought houses basically invested in the future but I am missing the now. I am fully aware of this but just can't change it, just the way I am.

On the topic of prostitutes, in my building there lives 3 escorts, 2 in one apartment across from me. First they earn a shitload, apartments in my building are expensive, over a million quid in value the rent is out of this world. I chat to one of them and I did ask why she does it and she said its for the money. She earns around £80-100k a year pays very little tax instead of the 45% she should be paying and said that if she got a normal job she would never be in a position to earn anymore than £30k a year. Which i can understand in this day and age in such a material world if letting randoms fuck her for money allows her to live in a high end area of the city and buy expensive cloths and shit, well what can you do. Its the easy way out though.

And yes I tried to fuck her but without paying, which failed miserably but I gave it a shot. I do agree that banging escorts is actually cheaper than a girlfriend.

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I was gonna suggest a change of scenery and try living in the UK for a year or two to experience a different lifestyle...but owwwwwww yup....owwww

LOL at Han's story. Yeah, i'm assuming that having an escort every now and then is cheaper than a girlfriend. My ex was very low maintenance. I used to joke with her and call her a fuel efficient pussy. Now I'm talking to a girl that the exact opposite. I told this girl to get us shots and this maniac went and got Patron shots with my debit card. What type of shit is that?! they're like 15 dollars a shot you witch, smh

then she started telling me that she can't drink house drinks or cheap vodak, that it has to be ciroc or patron or else she gets sick. Bitch you better guzzle this Bartons and take an advil.


I like the girl but she constantly wants to eat and places that make no fucking sense and go to clubs with extortionate door fees. We've been talking for 3 weeks, and last week was the start of the 'the hell is wrong with you nigga' era where I try to go back to my normal no pussy getting budget. So far so good but damn.


as far as the thread, everything is good though the past two years has been shit and have derailed me a lot. I'm learning to change my thinking and way of doing things to assure I don't make the same mistakes as before and stay 100% focused on my goals, which oddly enough talking to a girl is ruining.

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Originally Posted by TSA

then she started telling me that she can't drink house drinks or cheap vodak, that it has to be ciroc or patron or else she gets sick. Bitch you better guzzle this Bartons and take an advil.

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hahahaha

Lmfao @ calling that chick a witch for ordering expensive shots. I feel TSA, though. Women can definitely fuck up your focus if you let them.

Charles Barry, you're right that women will make men lose their focus. Men need to be focusing on getting jobs and getting money. Most women don't want hard working men anyway if you think about it. When I say hard working men, i'm talking about men that work at factories, warehouses, construction, driving delivery trucks, car mechanics, electricians, plumbers, maintenance technicians, grocery stores in different departments like produce, deli, dairy, unloading trucks, guys that work at Walmart and Target stocking shelves with products, janitors. Most women will go after guys that got jobs wearing a suit and tie, rappers, NBA players, NFL players, movie stars, singers because when you got jobs like these, you can live a lavish lifestyle and that's what women want.



Even women go after drug dealers because there's a lot of money you can get but it doesn't last long because most drug dealers end up dead and in prison. So men need to focus on getting a job and stacking money and don't be trying to get women to pay attention to you. If they don't pay attention to you, fuck them. Do what you gotta do to survive and take care of yourself. Sad thing is so many men only care about sex and think about sex when they see women. So they'll continue to chase women and that's why women don't chase men because they know men will chase them LOL.

Bitches most definitely go after plumbers, electricians, carpenters etc over here, "tradies get the ladies" as they say plus those guys get ridiculously good money compared to factory work and shit.

It's in a woman's nature to be a gold digger.

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