Originally Posted by
Gigy
As a black woman, there's a lot of things that I can agree on. Especially from the fact that lots of black women got that tough "I-don't-give-a-damn" attitude. Trust me, I've came and still come across so many of them and I do have friends like that. I definitely won't put all black women in the same basket because that would be unfair and a big ass lie. Like I definitely wouldn't put my brothers in the same "feed me-fuck me-shut the fuck up" basket as well.
What kills me is the fact that when some black women come across a good man, some of them scare the hell outta these dudes away by either warning them about the type of men they want or not, the type of female they are by saying things like "If you don't have a car, don't even bother... if you have a crazy cousin that just came out of the pen, don't even bother... if you have a baby mama drama, don't even bother... if your pockets ain't loaded, don't even bother..." and usually, those conversations starts on the 1st date, scaring the living crap outta the guy. I mean damn, give the brother a chance to prove himself to you or something. See what he's about and if you're definitely not interested, let him know and move on. Or if you're not even interested in getting to know him, don't give him false hopes. That shit is played out.