how so? I know what you mean, but they're really not as incomparble as you think
(sidenote: please nobody jump into this with a predisposed hatred of being bullied by a dude in nebraska online, not pat, everyone.)
Suicide is still killing someone, and has damages on the people around that person like family and shit
and murder is killing someone that damages that person and the people around them
they both have a very selfish element to them which is a huge reason they're looked down on (thats why then murder is lest self centered, like an execution, its easier to accept)
but what really links them is they are done by people that have reached an extreme level of emotional and psychological damage is disruption that none of us have reached and therefore if you can say 'you don't know what drives a person to suicide and therefore can't judge' you can also say 'you don't know what drives a person to murder and therefore can't judge'
i mean you KNOW but you dont really know cause you've never felt that way