if it's okay for men to cheat then what's good for him is good for her.
if you can't take your woman cheating on you then you shouldn't cheat on her.
it's not called "cheating" for no reason.
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if it's okay for men to cheat then what's good for him is good for her.
if you can't take your woman cheating on you then you shouldn't cheat on her.
it's not called "cheating" for no reason.
the difference is that men are deep, complex creatures, whereas women are objects
we all cheat, its just a matter of coincidence on whether or not you do it.
See, dicks are like keys, if they can open many locks, that's a master key. Now if a lock can be opened by many different keys... chea!
Trixx men cheat so we should too. We get offered dick so many times. Look at ur mans dick and no that something better will come along in about an hour.
It seems men cheat more in early dating relationships. Women seem to fuck it up more in marriages when serious money, legalities, and children are on the line.
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Originally Posted by Prolifical ENG
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if you know you're gonna cheat then you ought to inform your partner before you start a relationship with them. that way you both get a choice of whether you want to be in an open relationship or not. but then men will lie, tell the female the things she wants to hear and do all kinds of dirty shit behind her back.
if all men believe in cheating, then i might as well just start charging men for sex.
charging for sex even when i'm in a relationship, cos i will never know what kind of money my man is spending on some other bitch (hooker or no hooker).
in fact it should be in all marriage contracts that women should charge their men for sex.
isn't that basically what marriage is?
LOL yea no shit. not in so many words.
thats the reason women cheat....they can get better wages elswhere
when i'm with a chick who is cheating on her man, she's in it for better dick.
I doubt it. It's probably more about daddy's money, but that my friend, is an example you using Sweet Lemons as a rationalization tool.
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Originally Posted by iove
don't you know that there are untold useless men out there who prefer to sit indoors happily playing x-box/playstation/wii all day while their women are working on their career and shit?
those men deserve to get cheated on, right? their women should cheat on those men with their bosses/co workers and who ever else that can give her what she needs, right?
Those pills must be from a bad batch, girl...Quote:
Originally Posted by Trixx
I never cheated on any girl, even when the opportunity arose. If you get cheated on just break the fuck up cause that means the relationship you were in doesn't mean jack shit to him. Unless that's the same way you're standing in that relationship. Then you just need to acknowledge to eachother you're just fuckbudies and move on.
But to answer the question from the title, yes, it's natural. But if the guy can't resists his primal urges and you're ok with that, you might as well date a bordercollie.
saying it's natural for men to cheat is like saying it's okay for a man to stick his dick in any wet hole if he got a hard on. if that were the case then you wouldn't be able to let your woman go anywhere without you, cos there'll always be a man out there wanting to stick his dick in your woman. and it's also like saying it's a good excuse for raping women, though, it wouldn't be classed as rape in men's eyes.
then what you gonna do when the women get pregnant? you gonna pay child support for all the kids you've spawned?
Or be lesbian. Women r much loyal.Quote:
Originally Posted by Trixx
It's natural as in, a man has urges to have sex all the time. If man can't contain his inner beast, than that's not okay, but still it's natural. You seem emotionally unstable right now, even more than is natural for a woman, so I won't comment on the rest of that retarded shit you just wrote.Quote:
Originally Posted by Trixx
sweet lemons>sour grapes.Quote:
Originally Posted by DickyTouch
but anyway, trixx you should sell that pussy.
that's not always the case.Quote:
Originally Posted by Queen Of Poetry
you shouldn't have taken my post personally, it wasn't directed at you alone, it was directed at all the men in here.Quote:
Originally Posted by iove
what men don't seem to realise is that women have urges too. sometimes, when i'm stoned all i can think about is sex. so, when i'm stoned, i too have urges to have sex all the time. so, with that logic, it would be natural for me to cheat?
i will never sell my pussy, it's sacred to me. plus i get pregnant far too easily. i'm off to get an implant in my arm tomorrow (if i can get up in time).Quote:
Originally Posted by WUnded Fox
If you have those urges, yes. That's the way mother nature intended it to be. Don't fight it, unless you care about the relationship you're in.Quote:
Originally Posted by Trixx
i get the urge to have sex all the time, but i don't get the urge to shag every man i find attractive. i just get the urge to shag one man all the time.
is it different for men? why is it different?
there are men who want to be monogamous.
but the thing is they want to get into monogamous relationship after monogomous relationship instead of staying in just one.
Get it?
Biological advantages i guess, if you want to get darwinian.
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Originally Posted by DickyTouch
that type of men must spend all their lives lying. i hate liars, absolutely hate them. i don't care if they lie about their money or where they got their clothes from, or some other stupid shit. i mean lying about how they feel and lying to avoid getting dumped by their women.
what's the point in cheating? if that pussy ain't good enough for you then why not just leave her. i feel sorry for those women/men who spend their whole time holding things down for their partner while their partner can only think about sex with another man/woman.
i was only a "bang ting" for j, not like me to agree to be something like that, but i never went with another while i was still banging him.
we called it off loads of times and i did go with others while we weren't banging each other. he can go and stick his dick elsewhere cos i ain't going anywhere near his dick again.
A man doesn't want to cheat. Cheating is something women do. A man wants to have sexual relations without the relationship. Look at it from our perspective.
Guy takes a girl out on a date. Has a nice time. Doesn't push for anything. At this point he's made an investment in time and money in this girl as a sign of his interest in her and his financial situation. After a couple dates the ritual goes (and that's all this is, a played out mating ritual) where the girl is supposed to reciprocate with sex to show her interest and respect for him. If not she should have already stopped seeing him. Third date is the traditional make or break point. Then coitus occurs. After he wipes his dick on her face and tells her to get the fuck out, that's it. If he wants to go through it again he'll call her and she can say yes or no to come back into it for another round. This takes place until desired. However if he's good at it and is managing several girls at once with pimp status you shouldn't feel like he's cheating on you because you're still in the mating ritual phase. If anything he's testing the waters to see if he's serious about you. If he comes back that's a good thing. If he breaks it off he saved you the trouble because it wasn't going anywhere. If he's trying to pull off a menage et trois you should be totally into it if you want to impress him. It goes without saying dudes love that shit.
A man isn't settled until this has gone on for a while. Men fall in Lust. Women fall in love. If a man falls in Love with you he's probably obsessed with possessing you. (Which isn't sketchy or anything its the truth.) Its a totally different perspective. Basically a man is looking for sex until he's looking for something more. Eventually you'll spend enough time together he like fucking you and thinks you're okay to be around. Maybe. At this point presuming you're hot and you're mother's hot and you do domestic tasks well (or give the best head) you might have a chance at marriage. This is where his boy comes in and tests the commitment by trying to turn him against you. If it fails he's probably into you.
And that is basically the male mating and marriage ritual. It could take days or decades for a guy with prospects to choose a woman. There's no way to know. Once he chooses a man is stubborn as shit and won't cheat unless he's a jackass. Its only cheating if you're married and that's some Donald Draper shit. I can understand it but I can't accept it. If you're married and you have kids you should never cheat. That's part of what makes a man.
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Originally Posted by iove
Says the fucking pedofile!!!
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Originally Posted by iove
We know you are a fuckin pedofile!!! Stop pretendin you like women, FAGGOT!!!
Pedophiles like children. There are female children which is clearly his angle. Thus he's not gay, just breaking the law. You know who broke the law? R Fucking Kelly. Old Dirty Bastard even committed his fair share of statutory rape. Calm your shit. Calling someone gay isn't an insult anymore, not its a backhanded compliment like "you're so neat and well mannered I bet you're gay."
So suck a dick fagot. See say it with me. "I'm a fagot. I'm a Queer. I'm a fruit. I'm a cock sucking fagot. I'm okay with that. Because it's who I am."
Feel better? :p I hope so.
"Yesssss. feel the fruit flow thru you my young padawan."Quote:
Originally Posted by TheBoarzHeadBoy
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"but i'm not a faggot!"
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"you will be....you...will be."
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women don't always fall 'in love' with every man they date/shag. if men are gonna date several women at the same time then it ought to be okay for women to date several different men at the same time too. it's a shame how men don't like the fact that women can play them at their own game. we don't always fall in love and/or wanna get pregnant by the men we shag, some do, some don't. the women who purposely get pregnant by worthless men are idiots. the men who don't want their women to get pregnant but refuse to wear a condom while knowing these women aren't using any contraception are also idiots. both men and women are to blame for unwanted children. we have too many kids put into care homes and shit, it's not right.Quote:
Originally Posted by TheBoarzHeadBoy
how many divorces are down to the man cheating and/or getting a next female pregnant? how many divorce cases are down to the woman getting pregnant or giving birth to a next man's baby? can someone get some stats? it's not a competition, both are wrong.
i have cheated. but im married now. i wont cheat again unless its on some "lets flee the country and start my life over" type o' shit... it's just isnt worth it at this point. actually, if it was with another married woman who has as much to lose as i do then i might consider it ...
women and men are fundamentally different so we can not participate in cross gender activities and expect to function effectively under those situations.Quote:
Originally Posted by Queen Of Poetry
for example...woman can not sleep with a whole bunch of men and be viewed upon as being player.
just like a man can not wear ass hugging jeans, tight shirts, arched eyebrows, swinging a man bag and be looked upon as anything other than homosexual
they both may go into the situation with the best of intentions, but there are some things men and women can not do
now for cheating...women cant do what men do because cheating for a women is different than cheating for a man unless he was raised a fatherless, no male figure, testosterone deficient half fag. women are conquered sexually (unless a man was raised by women). women emotionalize sex and almost always fall in love with those they cheat with (unless your a simp).....
i will touch more upon this later...its far too early and my brain isnt awake yet
answering the question in the title...monogamy is unnatural. our only purpose on this planet is to reproduce. thats been the theme for hundreds of millions of yearsQuote:
Originally Posted by Trixx
cheating is for immature relationships....
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Originally Posted by The Ocean
you talk like humans are some kind of virus, no other purpose in life except to reproduce. saddening.
i hope you never get married, cos the poor cow will just be miserable with your cheating.
i doubt you've ever been in love. sad.
Trixx is on fire! Ha.
U go girl!
yeah i heard she was burnin too.Quote:
Originally Posted by Queen Of Poetry
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Back on topic: I don't believe in cheating. If I'm with u, I'm not cheating and I expect the same. If u can't handle that, then get out.
This is why I put up with your often crazy-black-man thoughts. Jewels like this.Quote:
Originally Posted by WUnded Fox