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    Default i'm starting to feel like the whole girlfriend experience isn't worth it...

    i've dated a lot of girls in my days, been in love a few times, sometimes happily and sometimes unreceived. this year i'm 30 and been single for about 6 months or somehting like that, before that it was about a year with a girl that i became quite obsessed over, i really felt like she and me should've been together bc we felt like soulmates if there ever is such a thing.. instead she chse some disusting piece of shit with half my brain, bigger muscles and more money.

    since my last relationship (which ended because i basically tried to force myself to love this poor girl and make it work while i really had no strong feelings more than i liked being around her and the sex was good). she was totally in love so it felt like shit to have to break it toher and really did a number on her.

    but that's just some background, as i grow older, wiser and knows myself a lot better it is EXTREMELY hard to find a hot girl that has the same interests and are compatible. another thing is that in work situations and the likes, every single fucking time i meet someone who i'm instantly interestedin (like really interested in), she of cours has a boyfriend.

    and the younger girls i talk with (and some of the older ones as well) are dumb as fuck to put it bluntly.. obsessed with material shit, the worst taste in movies ("Fast and the Furious" and Hollywoo d junklike that", the worst taste in music (only current mainstream shit basically) and most of their interests are not compatible with mine.. i have a good job with a steady income and i'm not one of those types that NEED to have vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv a girlfriend.

    i mean of course no person is 100% alike and will like all the shit the same, but i like being alone, being able to always chose what to do, when to do it, what to listen to, etc. music is the most important thing in my life so to have a girl that don't fuck about good music how hard that would be not to be able to play my recors or play like one of mine then one of hers, etc.

    i like being alone in many ways, but of course i sometimes miss having a gigood girl to come home to after work or meet on th4 weekenew (Ihad a few distance relationsip and that was right up my alley). also sex with hooker or with some radnom chick you meet at bar or whatever is a nce feeling. but making love to someone that you love with all your heart is one of the best experiences you can hove, no doubt, so that i really miss.

    and i won't lower my standards, it's a beautiful girl or i much rather be alone.. if there's no strong physical attracion we might as ell be friends. sorry for the long winded post but these girls makes me crazy most of the time lol



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    I thought this was going to be about the girlfriend experience that escorts offer and I was preparing an essay on how pornstar experience is the only way to fuck.

    Welcome to the no cunt children club my man. Single life is the most empowering way to live life as a male if you're not a bitch about it. I can't understand how these dudes ask for permission from a female and you know that ones who come on here talking about how they strong arm their bitch are really tucking their cock between their legs in front of her. Raising kids and being a pussy is for women and gays.
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    You're the person you are because you're a man. You've spent time perfecting your round house kick, hunting cunt, and consuming shit that matches your chemical composition as a man. If you find a girl that's like you, wtf is her story?

    She'll just be useless or psycho and you'll both change in two years anyways. Whatever direction your going, any and every woman will follow. Many won't follow but they're not women and have to be broken down to compound.

    What happens when a moozlem marries a non-muslim woman? She becomes a moozlem. Is it because that shit made sense all of a sudden? No dude, that nigga gave that bih a lifestyle. Women are unusually receptive to whatever the hell you offer as long as you offer some shit.

    but you can but offering something and looking for a girl that's offering the same thing then think you 'have something in common'. Fuck that. If a girl watches Fast and Furious it's cause a dude that d-dicked her down watched that shit. Dick her down and she'll be reciting the wutang double CD

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    You're the person you are because you're a man. You've spent time perfecting your round house kick, hunting cunt, and consuming shit that matches your chemical composition as a man. If you find a girl that's like you, wtf is her story?

    She'll just be useless or psycho and you'll both change in two years anyways. Whatever direction your going, any and every woman will follow. Many won't follow but they're not women and have to be broken down to compound.

    What happens when a moozlem marries a non-muslim woman? She becomes a moozlem. Is it because that shit made sense all of a sudden? No dude, that nigga gave that bih a lifestyle. Women are unusually receptive to whatever the hell you offer as long as you offer some shit.

    but you can but offering something and looking for a girl that's offering the same thing then think you 'have something in common'. Fuck that. If a girl watches Fast and Furious it's cause a dude that d-dicked her down watched that shit. Dick her down and she'll be reciting the wutang double CD

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    There have been a couple of moments recently where I've entertained the possibility of inviting a female into my life again, but straight away I think about how every day I'm cursing having nowhere near enough thyme to do the dolo activities I wanna do, and so I very quickly dismiss the idea. I think the only way I'd want a girlfriend is if she played the blues on some instrument or other and we could jam when we weren't fucking.

    She'd also have to be OK with the fact that I'd have to regularly beat her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by noel411 View Post
    There have been a couple of moments recently where I've entertained the possibility of inviting a female into my life again, but straight away I think about how every day I'm cursing having nowhere near enough thyme to do the dolo activities I wanna do, and so I very quickly dismiss the idea. I think the only way I'd want a girlfriend is if she played the blues on some instrument or other and we could jam when we weren't fucking.

    She'd also have to be OK with the fact that I'd have to regularly beat her.
    Lmao nice ending there noel.

    yeah women...i could write a whole book and still not be happy with a woman.

    I mean don't get me wrong i've been happy in the past with my baby mama but something always seems to happen and we go our seperate ways thats just the truth of the matter, am i heart broken yes, do i still think about her. yes do i love her still. of course. unfortunately no matter who shes fucking now i'd always do anything for that girl not just because shes the mom to my kid, but because before we had a kid and during pregnancy all the memories up's n downs that we shared together. it's tough yeah single is great freedom not having to answer to anybody. but u do get lonely once in a while. and i think thats where it all boils down to. sometimes i miss the companionship others i like being alone and not have to compromise in order to be alone. it's a double edged sword my friend.
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    Quick question: Is it possible to know whether you want a girlfriend or not if you've never had one? I havent had one




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    A man is not supposed to give up his life and settle down. It's on some bitch shit if you cuck down with just one female, no matter how many females you dick on the side you're still reporting back to the main one like a bitch. If you're looking for anything other than a wet pussy in a female then you've got no balls.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Hound View Post
    A man is not supposed to give up his life and settle down. It's on some bitch shit if you cuck down with just one female, no matter how many females you dick on the side you're still reporting back to the main one like a bitch. If you're looking for anything other than a wet pussy in a female then you've got no balls.
    I deffo hear what youre saying. Biologically n all that
    . Not sure I think every guy who is after a female for more than wet pussy has no balls but I see where ya coming from, Hound

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    One thing Ive observed about myself is after two weeks of no sexual activity I feel like a hunter so to speak. Sentimentality just kind of falls...to an all time low




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    I've gotten use to being single for a long long time now and it's been great. The best part about it is that I have no kids which means no responsibilitys and that's great. I'm so use to only having to worry about myself that if I had to suddenly become responsible for a whole bunch of messy noisy children would totally destroy this peace Of being alone that I now hold on too. I never gave in.I hate drama and shit like that and alot of people are all about it. Life is just so simple when you're alone and I'm addicted to it. It use to be really hard for me not having a girl but now I don't even care it seems like it's better not having one. it seems to me like I've married myself and it's wonderful. It's like a dream of mine to have no kids cuz I've avoided having them all my life all the way up to this point and I've never been captured and it's something I've grown to love.I've grown accustomed to being alone now and I don't know why but I love this shit so much all my money goes to me and I can do anything that I want I'm not held back by restrictions.Women and children will enslave you and if you can get passed the loneliness of being alone and then learn to love being alone it can be fantastic. No responsibilitys. Many of the things I enjoy doing in life are better being alone anyways.I'm attached to having no responsibilities and almost every girl you find is going to have kids and I've enjoyed 32 years without kids and I don't want to give that up I'm an only child and have always been a loner who just keeps a few good friends instead of worrying about everything I just worry about entertaining my fans and I'm waiting for a fan that will fall in love with me cuz this is where I need to be this is where I am at I don't have time for all that other shit.. The medication I take plus the zen and meditation I do all make it so that sex isn't that big of a deal for me anymore anyways. like it but I don't think about it very much and the cost of pussy is really expensive. The freedom I enjoy is top notch. Zen masters have always said that to truly be happy you need to learn to be happy alone in a cave which I have done, and it's just so awesome being alone so much so that I don't want to give it up. Video games are better when alone, when your alone you can watch whatever you want to watch on on TV, you can do whatever you want,you don't need to share your weed with anyone else or any of your money at all.Being single is just so peaceful and convenient that I don't want to let it go.

    I'm an Aquarius and aquarians value their freedom so much and it's a trate most aquarians have so I'm very picky about friends and girlfriends cuz I'm just so use to being alone but I've always been a loner who keeps a few great friends only and that's all I've really ever needed. It seems like people get so trapped into responsibility that they have to give up their dreams and freedoms and it's no longer about them it's about other people.

    I was fortunate enough to havenever fallen into a trap like that it's like people out there are fishing and very few people like me spit out the hook and avoid capture.I've learned "bros before hoes" and "find them fuck them leave them cuz there nothing but hoes." And that makes alot of sense. I've read a few books on what you need to do to be successful with women and it seems like Girls want a bunch of bullshit that I can't offer that's not who I am.I've had sex with over 10 women but never had any relationships that have lasted very long and it was hard at first but now it's really working out for me.I've learned to enjoy being alone and the freedom that it offers. For large amounts of time throughout my life I've chosen to make and work on music alone instead of conforming to people's ideas and ideals and I'm just so happy just having to worry about myself that having a big family would just slow me down like I could have this girl right now but she has too many kids. I'm completely addicted and dedicated to music and don't have much holding me back and I'm free to choose whatever destiny I want.

    Alot of the people I meet are bad people anyways or atleast hold me back and it seems like nobody understands me. I am not a slave to all these people or to a big family with a wife and kids thank god it's just me I've never given in and am now very comfortable and happy without any of that shit. I live my life free and I don't want to give it up.

    People fear being alone cuz they've never been alone but I've lived most of my life alone and I've never had to settle I'm still waiting for the perfect girl and to a person who's very blood and soul are all about rap and being a rapper, that I'm just waiting to find my best fan so I can continue this music and I'm holding out till I get a little bit bigger to the point where I find super fans. I don't have a big ball and chain holding me back and I've never settled for less. I've had my heart broken enough times that I don't let it get broken anymore I don't got time for people's games I'm going to wait for the right person instead of having to compromise so much. Being alone is just so rewarding idk it's all I really know more so than not all because I didn't wanna settle for less. I'm married to the game and I need a girl that is with that shit or not have one at all. To those of you that have a wife and kids just imagine the peace you would feel if you learned to be happy all by yourself I'm just beginning to experience things for the first time I've never sold out and I work for a greater future without sacrafying the present. I need a very specific type of girl and haven't found one yet but it's OK I don't mind sacrificing shit in order to ensure ultimate victory. My life is my own and it belongs to me I've never had to give up my freedom for others I find truth with having a limited amount of people in my life I don't have alot of time for other people my time is for my music career and my fans. Imagine what it's like not having to get up for kids or for work it's great and I'm still free and to all you girls it's going to take alot more for me to give that one up and in time I will find a girl who loves things my way with a prenuptial agreement I slipt through the cracks and now value that this happens it's more power for me I'm not a girly girl or a sap

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    Girls can be bad news and I'm not going to give in unless it's right I really have no reason to have one right now im just going to wait till I find groupies or something cuz music is my life I'm married to the game and I'm not going to give it up for anyone and if you can survive being alone long enough you will really learn to appreciate it

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    Quote Originally Posted by noel411 View Post
    There have been a couple of moments recently where I've entertained the possibility of inviting a female into my life again, but straight away I think about how every day I'm cursing having nowhere near enough thyme to do the dolo activities I wanna do, and so I very quickly dismiss the idea. I think the only way I'd want a girlfriend is if she played the blues on some instrument or other and we could jam when we weren't fucking.

    She'd also have to be OK with the fact that I'd have to regularly beat her.
    ahaha, you get the gold dick award. It's like jail

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