Originally Posted by
Tryxx
do you see women as just something to put your dick in? cos that seems like the case here, which makes you a sad bastard. maybe that's why you can't find a decent woman, because you only see them as pussy.
what's wrong with taking girls out to dinner? you get to have a nice meal and some conversation with her. if during that conversation she decides she likes you then she would want to see you again. so what if she doesn't sleep with you that night? maybe she doesn't feel ready to sleep with you, does that make her not worthwhile? because the women who do sleep with men on a first date never get to see the man again because he ain't interested in her no more. why? because he thinks she's a slut for sleeping with someone so soon after meeting them. the men who expect a woman to sleep with them after one date are only after sex and women have to protect themselves from being used in that way.
by talking to women you show them that you're interested in them as a person. if she's interested in more than just sex with you then she would want to know you more as a person too. when women look for a boyfriend, they want more than just a dick on legs. they don't just want to be sexually involved with someone, they want the man to be emotionally involved with them too.
i'd like to find a man who's honest, intelligent, funny, mentally tough and caring. you don't get to know if a man has all those attributes after a few dates.
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