it's natural for a man to cheat?

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

A man doesn't want to cheat. Cheating is something women do. A man wants to have sexual relations without the relationship. Look at it from our perspective.

Guy takes a girl out on a date. Has a nice time. Doesn't push for anything. At this point he's made an investment in time and money in this girl as a sign of his interest in her and his financial situation. After a couple dates the ritual goes (and that's all this is, a played out mating ritual) where the girl is supposed to reciprocate with sex to show her interest and respect for him. If not she should have already stopped seeing him. Third date is the traditional make or break point. Then coitus occurs. After he wipes his dick on her face and tells her to get the fuck out, that's it. If he wants to go through it again he'll call her and she can say yes or no to come back into it for another round. This takes place until desired. However if he's good at it and is managing several girls at once with pimp status you shouldn't feel like he's cheating on you because you're still in the mating ritual phase. If anything he's testing the waters to see if he's serious about you. If he comes back that's a good thing. If he breaks it off he saved you the trouble because it wasn't going anywhere. If he's trying to pull off a menage et trois you should be totally into it if you want to impress him. It goes without saying dudes love that shit.

A man isn't settled until this has gone on for a while. Men fall in Lust. Women fall in love. If a man falls in Love with you he's probably obsessed with possessing you. (Which isn't sketchy or anything its the truth.) Its a totally different perspective. Basically a man is looking for sex until he's looking for something more. Eventually you'll spend enough time together he like fucking you and thinks you're okay to be around. Maybe. At this point presuming you're hot and you're mother's hot and you do domestic tasks well (or give the best head) you might have a chance at marriage. This is where his boy comes in and tests the commitment by trying to turn him against you. If it fails he's probably into you.

And that is basically the male mating and marriage ritual. It could take days or decades for a guy with prospects to choose a woman. There's no way to know. Once he chooses a man is stubborn as shit and won't cheat unless he's a jackass. Its only cheating if you're married and that's some Donald Draper shit. I can understand it but I can't accept it. If you're married and you have kids you should never cheat. That's part of what makes a man.

women don't always fall 'in love' with every man they date/shag. if men are gonna date several women at the same time then it ought to be okay for women to date several different men at the same time too. it's a shame how men don't like the fact that women can play them at their own game. we don't always fall in love and/or wanna get pregnant by the men we shag, some do, some don't. the women who purposely get pregnant by worthless men are idiots. the men who don't want their women to get pregnant but refuse to wear a condom while knowing these women aren't using any contraception are also idiots. both men and women are to blame for unwanted children. we have too many kids put into care homes and shit, it's not right.

how many divorces are down to the man cheating and/or getting a next female pregnant? how many divorce cases are down to the woman getting pregnant or giving birth to a next man's baby? can someone get some stats? it's not a competition, both are wrong.