it's natural for a man to cheat?

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

there are people out there who know more about the lives of celebrities and characters from tv shows/comic books/films than they do their own family's lives. celebrities live cooler lives, right?

and people want everything that's advertised cos you know, it looks cool.

[RADIOACTIVE MAN]

the media is only one factor...feminism is another..and its usually taught by single parents to their children..and we know most single parents are mothers

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

it's easier to follow a crowd than it is to walk alone.
a crowd will only get as far as it gets.
those who walk alone will determine their own destination.

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

the media is only one factor...feminism is another..and its usually taught by single parents to their children..and we know most single parents are mothers

those single parents probably only get into feminism after they got played and ended up holding the baby.

[RADIOACTIVE MAN]

most of them play themselves because half the time,they know exactly what they are getting into or what kinda guy they dealing with but they absolutely must have a bad boy...cant pity em,sorry

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

no one is asking for pity. if you're weren't gonna wife her, then don't make her a mother.


i know a young man who has 30+ brothers and sisters out there. and that's just the ones he knows about. his dad was a big player. he's gotta be in his 40s or 50s. his dad probably hasn't settled down yet. still the player. no woman at home. no kids at home. career is over. likes a drink. likes a gamble. likes the strip club. his mum probably still does his washing for him. fathers day must suck for him.

remember that everyone loses their looks once they get older. playing isn't as easy once you get on a bit. can't all be george clooney.

[RADIOACTIVE MAN]

and you think the women he gets with have no idea how he is? u cant put the whole blame on the man when it takes 2 to tango..let me explain something..theres no way half these women do not know about the man's reputation but they still go after it, one way or another they get wind of what kinda guy they are dealing with..the signs are always there..clear and vivid in their face and they still go for it...so yeah..you let a guy do it to you,its your own problem..No one else...its time to stop blaming the dudes completely..how do u also know he probably didnt wanna wife her from get go? and maybe he saw something about her that changed his whole viewpoint and intent?

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

people fuck up, both men and women. i've talked about women fucking up in here too. it's how you deal with things after things have fucked up. if there's kids involved then the kids are the most important.

when you're a parent it's your kids you have to impress not your friends.

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

and you think the women he gets with have no idea how he is? u cant put the whole blame on the man when it takes 2 to tango..let me explain something..theres no way half these women do not know about the man's reputation but they still go after it, one way or another they get wind of what kinda guy they are dealing with..the signs are always there..clear and vivid in their face and they still go for it...so yeah..you let a guy do it to you,its your own problem..No one else...its time to stop blaming the dudes completely..how do u also know he probably didnt wanna wife her from get go? and maybe he saw something about her that changed his whole viewpoint and intent?

if you know these females only want certain things from you then why do you choose to make your life difficult by getting involved with them? if you have no intention of dating them let alone wifing them?

[diggy]

Gravey hit it on the head.



But who says being in a relationship is easy? Is keeping one's word easy? It takes people with integrity to maintain a meaningful relationship. How many are those people?


When people get cheated on, it takes two to tango, so what role did the cheated-on-person play in it?

cheating is for people who are losing the game

gotta be playing a game in order to cheat

Interesting.

They are cheaters because they don't 'play' by societal norms, but are playing their own game with rules that differ from the norm. Maybe they do this because they perceive those rules to be unfair. Or maybe they were not qualified to play the game in the first place.

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

if you already have someone waiting at home for you every day why do you need to complicate things?

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

relationships are hard work. that is why i rate a man who can hold down a good relationship higher than a man who has many conquests.

[RADIOACTIVE MAN]

U Missing the point..they may be waiting all day at home for you...but the question is..what exactly are you going home to?..someone can be at home all they want and be a tyrant in your existence, do things to disillusion you

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

then talk to them about why they have turned into a tyrant. you have to communicate in relationships. people get angry for whatever reasons and you have to talk about how and why they get angry. people need to step up their communications game. you might communicate on a mic but you communicate whenever you're in the presence of people.

[Ol' Dirty Trixˣ]

if you're arguing about the same thing over and over then it's time that you both came to a compromise. think of something that you could both agree with.

all couples will argue, and fall out, and not talk for a while, and then get back together again. don't risk bringing another child into the mess is what i'm saying.