Quote Originally Posted by The Hound View Post
I can see where noel is coming from, men usually have other shit going on that gets prioritised over taking care of a relationship. We've got a hilarious Sri Lankan guy at work who goes to the pub after work and plays cricket on weekends just to avoid his wife lol men that give up hobbies and interests for a family seem to do so reluctantly or in what I've been exposed to with friends and family they don't actually give it up at all and get in trouble for never being around.

I've never met a woman who has this extra curricular stuff going on that wasn't study, it's usually just gym and stuff like arts n crafts and reading or bush walking which every single woman I've been with was in to.

But in my experience with how much women want sex it's more on a continually rooting all night and smashing out getting off one after the other rather than getting off and letting it be for the night, maybe I've just met women with extremely high sex drives though.

All in my experience with women I've been with and know.
If by extra curricular activities, you mean, doing stuff on your own that you do for yourself then yes, I def need that in my life. The husband and I have our own stuff we individually like to do away from each other, sometimes with our own friends but mostly alone. I need time away to decompress and recharge. I can be a bit of an entrovert and social gatherings or just one on one interactions can be exhausting for me. Having an individual outlet is crucial for me. I sometimes found that my husband wanted too much attention from me and it became an issue at one point but we worked through that.