Quote Originally Posted by Blackula Spectacula View Post
If by extra curricular activities, you mean, doing stuff on your own that you do for yourself then yes, I def need that in my life. The husband and I have our own stuff we individually like to do away from each other, sometimes with our own friends but mostly alone. I need time away to decompress and recharge. I can be a bit of an entrovert and social gatherings or just one on one interactions can be exhausting for me. Having an individual outlet is crucial for me. I sometimes found that my husband wanted too much attention from me and it became an issue at one point but we worked through that.
Nobody every tells you how much peace and balance comes from each person having their own life.